Today's blog message is titled If You Think You're Lonely Now. My blog is going to be a spin on the Bobby Womack classic, later remade by K-Ci and JoJo. Saturday was Valentine's Day, the day were couples go all out to show love for each other. Call me crazy, but why would you wait one year for a day to show your (wo)man how much you love them? You should be showing them love year round, and Valentine's Day is the culmination of the rest of the year. My heart goes out to all singles who spent V-Day alone. Some (wo)men felt some kind of way because they had no one to call their Valentine. In my opinion, Valentine's Day is overrated because you spend hundreds of dollars to show love for your spouse, only to fuss with them the next day. Where do they do that at?😂ðŸ˜You and your spouse are lovey-dovey on Valentine's Day, and tomorrow y'all are at each other's throats. If that's what love is, I want no part of it.
I can't stand when (wo)men are so desperate for a Valentine that they'll go on a date and break up with someone the next day. I believe the term for that is "user". Someone spends money on you for V-Day, they think you could be the one, but you're using them because your butt doesn't want to be alone for V-Day, so you date them for a month leading up to V-Day, then break up with them. Richard doesn't respect that. Make it so bad, the (wo)men who pull this mess don't feel bad about it. In their mind, they felt special for one day & afterwards, they have no use for that person. This is where my discernment kicks in to avoid these types of women because she tried it. No woman will get my goodness without me. In other words, she takes me along with the benefits of being with me. I wonder how many (wo)men got together for a month leading up to Valentine's Day, only to break up the day after. This happens much more than I want to admit, but I'm glad it does because it shows me who people really are.
In conclusion, if you're a (wo)man that feels some kind of way about being alone for Valentine's Day, and you pull this mess of getting together only for one day to break up afterwards, you make me sick. Karma has a way of checking you.
That is ridiculous, low down, and just plain bogus as hell!!!! I spent Valentine's Day alone and I don't feel bitter about it at all. Love should be displayed on a daily basis and if someone's character traits are exhibited in that manner they are in fact a user! They have no idea what emotional damage that could do to an individual. Great post!
ReplyDeleteIt's sad and makes people not want to take a chance on love. Nowadays, you have to approach love like a business deal.
ReplyDeleteFirst up TWO THUMBS UP ON THE SONG SELECTION!!! I know Bobby Womack approved this cover of his classic song!
ReplyDeleteSecondly women who use men like that...ddate them for a few weeks leading up to Valentines Day deserves to spend the rest of her life alone. That is some low down ish for real. How dare u use a person in such a cold n calculating manner. Smh
And finally i cant figure out why ppl may such a hife deal about not having a S/O when V day rolls around. Shit if u bothered by being lonely on that day, what happeN to the other 364 days? U dont think u will be lonely on those days too? Smh
*back to the music selection* man! K-ci
sang da HELL outta that song!!!
The song was fitting for this message Zwena. I just don't get some folks logic. All the other years you're not lonely, but when Valentine's Day comes around, you change your tune.
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