Do men respect their woman if she forgives him for cheating? That depends on the man. A good man respects his woman enough NOT to cheat on her, because he knows what that will do to her, and not too many women will let themselves get played over and over. She takes him back once, that's fine. When a man cheats again & she takes him back, I wonder what's going on with her self-esteem. When you have someone that's good to you, do everything in your power to hold onto them, because there are plenty of people waiting to take your spot. As a matter of fact, a good catch is a hot commodity. Everyone is gunning for them. Even the wrong people are looking at a good (wo)man as a prize because of their character. I have a hard time believing a man respects his woman for forgiving him of his indisrections. There are some women who will cut a man off at the first indiscretion, and that's to be expected.
I have a hard time believing a man respects his woman for forgiving him of his indisrections. There are some women who will cut a man off at the first indiscretion, and that's to be expected. Why stay while the other person continues to mistreat you? I've never understood that and never will. Here's the thing: If a man is bold enough to cheat on his woman, he has no respect for her. How can you respect someone you cheat on? You can't. If he respected her before & the cheating was a moment stupidity, then I think he does respect his woman since she took him back. After all, she didn't have to take him back. She could've left him to play sad R&B songs, but she found it in her heart to forgive him and give him another shot. What he does with that second chance is on him. I believe respect flies out the window when there's cheating. If you respect someone, it shows in the way you treat them.
Sometimes its not a self esteem issue that keeps a woman dealing with the bull crap, a lot of times it's the woman allowing emotions to overshadow reason and logistics. Women have been making bad decisions behind their emotions for decades.
ReplyDeleteYou said it Des, women allow their emotions to rule over logic. Until you ladies operate off of logic, your emotions will continue getting you into relationship trouble.
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