All In The Family

I have gotten myself involved in a love triangle, and I desperately need to get out of it. A few weeks back, my wife came to me and told me she had spoken to her mother and the mother said her father has ED (erectile dysfunction). My wife told me her mother wanted to stay with him, but she has natural needs that she needs fulfilled. Right about this same time, my mother-in-law started hitting on me. I was totally forthcoming with my wife about her mother’s inappropriate verbal comments, like “I bet you have a monster down there!” My wife excused it by saying her mother is just sexually frustrated. I rebuffed her mom’s advances, but they kind of peaked my interest. My wife said she spoke to her mom and her mother told her that she wanted to have sex with me. She told my wife that we could help “save the family.” My wife told me that she wanted me to consider helping her mother out, but I was completely thrown back. I made a vow to my wife and to God to be faithful to my wife! My wife felt that saving our family was more important and since her mom sacrificed a lot to raise her, so this was just a small thing to ask for in return. I did not feel this way. I am a church boy and my wife was my first. After a few weeks of being pressured by my wife and mother in law and with my wife’s blessing, I slept with my mother in law and OMG!!! As I said, my wife is the extent of my sexual experience and my wife’s sexual experiences were limited as well… But her mother has opened my eyes to a whole new world of sexual exploits and I love it! I feel so guilty because I want to have sex with my mother-in-law more than my wife, and it doesn’t help that she is an absolutely stunning woman, I mean she is bad! She and my wife look more like sisters than mother and daughter. She’s a mix between Angela Bassett and Halle Berry! I told my wife that I needed to end the arrangement with her mother because I did not feel comfortable anymore. My wife told me if I wanted her to learn new tricks, she would join her mother and I the next time, to “get some pointers.” Needless to say, her mother is teaching US well. My wife is now a beast in the sheets and she tells me her mother’s relationship with her father has improved greatly. I feel so guilty because I have a great relationship with my father-in-law, who is also the pastor at my church. I need to get out of this situation, but I do not want to destroy the family or my church.

Congratulations to this couple for bringing shame to their family. It's one thing for a man to sleep with his attractive mother-in-law, but when his wife co-signed, that's just foul. This is why I say that most couples don't respect marriage, because of mess like this. I wish I would even think of sleeping with my mother-in-law; it's not worth the embarrassment I'd feel if this got out. Truthfully, he's wanted to sleep with his mother-in-law from Day 1, and he needed confirmation from his wife. This strawberry letter reminds me of a Fresh Prince episode where Phillip's former college girlfriend Janice Robertson (Pam Grier) comes to visit Phillip, and old feelings resurface. By this time, Phillip is already married with a family of his own. Will is seeing her daughter and Janice becomes attracted to Will. Allegedly, Will and Janice sleep together and once word gets out, it causes a big mess. This guy sacrificed his character for mother-in-law good good.
Obviously the husband DOESN'T feel guilty because he's going back for seconds, thirds, etc. He did say his mother-in-law is a cross between Angela Bassett & Halle Berry. Regardless of how fine his mother-in-law is, that's no excuse for violating his marriage, even with his wife's "blessing". According to the Bible, blessings bring no sorrow with them. I can see why sex is supposedly viewed as an important part of marriage, because if you're not getting it from your spouse, you will look for it elsewhere. I can imagine how the father-in-law is going to feel once this love triangle gets out. Remember the 70's show All In The Family? They're definitely keeping it All In The Family with this love triangle. As the head, he's supposed to set the example. The husband should have put his foot down and said NO. Vows to God carry far more weight than "saving your family." I would feel some kind of way if my wife gave me her "blessing" to sleep with her attractive mother-in-law.
A SMALL thing? Asking your husband to sleep with your mother in law to save your marriage doesn't qualify as a "small" request. As the Bible states, what's done in the dark will come to the light. This is the kind of mess that destroyed Sodom & Gomorrah, gross perversion.