Who's At Fault?

This question got mixed responses when someone posted in one of my Facebook groups. Some people said the man's at fault because he's married, others said the homewrecker & the man are wrong, and some said the wife. Generally, the married man would be at fault because he's married. When a man takes a woman as his wife, he chose HER. That means he's to leave these other skanks alone. I say this quite often: If you can't be faithful, don't get married; it's not fair to your spouse and deep down, you're cheating yourself out of a happy life. Women know a good man when they see one, so in some way I understand why some homewreckers ruin marriages. It doesn't excuse their actions, but I see why. It's shameful some men don't respect their marriages enough to reject another woman's advances. He wants to see if he still has it, or the other woman may have what his wife lacks. Worst case scenario, the married man fell out of love with his wife, and by messing around with another woman, that will fill that void in his life. The only woman a man should be sleeping with is his wife.

The reason I also feel that BOTH (the husband and homewrecker) are at fault is because it takes two to sleep together. A married man must have a willing participant; he can't sleep with another woman by himself. Think about it: If a man doesn't have another woman to sleep with, he has no alternative but to remain faithful to his wife. He keeps his marriage in tact and saves himself a pissed off wife. Nowadays, adultery can end in death because some (wo)men will react unfavorably to a cheating spouse. All these men out here, and a homewrecker has to go after someone else's husband. Did it occur to homewreckers NOT to take what doesn't belong to you? Then again, I don't expect homewreckers to have a conscience. The wife bears responsibility because she's not doing her job at home. I understand the husband and wife are busy with their professional lives, and that can damper their love life.

Situations like what's described in this picture happen in real life. Like a movie, you have various characters who all play a part. Because there are various characters, you can't hold one person accountable.