A couple has recently gotten engaged & decided to refrain from sex until after marriage. This couple was already having sex, so what brought on the change of heart? Let me explain why I think it's crazy: 1. The couple was already sexing prior to becoming engaged, so all of a sudden they're going to refrain from sexual activity? My guess is they want sex to mean something after marriage. If they wanted their sex to mean something, they should've refrained from the jump. No sense in switching up now. Considering they're already sexing, it won't make much difference if they decide to refrain. They're used to knocking boots before, so sex won't be anymore special after the wedding. Sex is sex. The same sex you had prior to marriage doesn't all of a sudden become special once you tie the knot; I don't know why people believe this. It's hypocritical if you're sexing your mate, then stop and expect them to agree to refrain from sexual activity until after the wedding.
You don't have to be married in order to understand that if you've been having sex before marriage, it doesn't become special once you get married. That's like a man getting loving from his woman all year around, then when her b'day, the anniversary, and Valentine's Day rolls around, he works hard to get the same nooky he's become accustomed to getting. What's really wrong with her expectations is she hasn't considered his feelings or just expects him to understand. If he agreed, he would've told you and it would be their business how they do things. In some ways, I see the romantic side of things and that's probably what she wants, problem is he doesn't and probably feels he wants to express his love by continuing what they've already been doing. I can't fault him because they've gotten used to sex to where there's nothing to look forward to, so there's really no benefit to either in waiting.
Sex is like an expensive car, once you get it, it loses it's value. However, the person giving it can dwindle or multiply it's value.
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