This post caught my attention in one of my Facebook groups. It deals with the issue of sexual partners. Whenever a (wo)man is meeting a potential mate, this topic usually comes up. Why does it come up? Because you want to know about their sexual health. With too many diseases running amok, it's important not to take a chance on your health. It seems that more men are demanding to know a woman's sexual status. If she's honest about the number of partners, he'll think she's lying or a ho. You can't win with some men, so I see why women opt not to answer, or give a false number. Then again, men are known to lie when a woman flips the script. If you don't want to know the answer, don't ask the question.
If you find someone that hasn't slept around and is a good fit, keep them around. You won't find too many quality mates in today's world. I understand quality is different for everyone. My personal viewpoint is this: If I want to know a woman's sexual past, I'm going to ask. If I don't/won't like the answer, it's best I not ask. I will be 100 and say I want a wholesome woman. I want to be her first & only. At the same time, every woman has a past so it's up to me to decide what I can handle. However, I know that someone's past doesn't define them unless they let it. If I meet a woman who's a great fit for me, but she slept with someone prior to me, I probably wouldn't trip over it too much AS LONG as ties were cut with her ex. I don't have time to be #2. It's either me or him.
No (wo)man wants a loose person. If so, that's sad and it goes to show you that some people are desperate to park in anyone's garage. How can some people be comfortable about sexing this & that person? That's crazy to me because they're playing Russian Roulette with their life. There have been news articles of men & women catching deadly diseases for sleeping around. That will not be me because I have goals to accomplish, and I can't do what needs to be done if I'm spending more time humping & jumping around. I consider a person loose if they've had more than 5 sexual partners. Some (wo)men like loose partners; to each their own. Couldn't be me. The only person I want to be loose with is my wife.
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