People cheat because there's someone willing to cheat with them. It has nothing to do with insecurities or the grass being greener on the other side. There it is, the TRUTH. People come up with all kinds of reasons for someone cheating: (S)he wasn't emotionally available, they're never home, she works too late, he spends more time with his friends, etc. Their excuses have excuses. Some reasons for cheating are valid, but others are baloney. If you're going to cheat, make sure the reason is valid. Don't shuck & jive like like (s)he isn't this, that, and the other. That annoys me to the core when people make excuses for why they cheat. For every person that cheats, there's someone willing to cheat with them. Think about it, could you cheat on your spouse with yourself? Negative. You need a willing participant (usually a complete stranger). You and another person go on a few dates, get to know each other. Both of you open up to each other about relationship woes and before you know it, clothes come off and you find yourself in bed with someone else. Just like in arguments, there has to be two participants. One person is not going to argue with themselves, because they will look crazy. Cheating works the same way, it requires two willing participants. Personally, cheating is a waste of time. Why go through all the trouble to cheat on your spouse? If you're not happy, LEAVE. There's nothing like leaving a relationship with your head held high, knowing you did everything possible to make the relationship work, but to no avail.
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