Mar 6, 2013

Henpecked Men

STOP Simping Movement
Hen Pecked is when you're married doing simp stuff.
Taking verbal abuse from your wife, nagging. You follow your wife's rules & curfew (I'm laughing as I write this). Generally, your wife looks more like the man of the house than you.
Examples of a hen pecked man would be fictional characters like: Doug from King & Queens. Raymond from Everybody Loves Raymond.
Real life Hen pecked men were, and are cats like Seal & Kobe Bryant. Anybody in a relationship with Superhead. Most married men in relationships on Social Media.
The word of today is Hen Peck. cluck, cluck.

My $.02: Just about all of this is true. Let's be clear: Being henpecked IS NOT doing whatever it takes to keep your lady happy, if you really care for her. That's what a man's supposed to do, move heaven & earth to keep his woman happy. If a man is scared to stand up to his woman, he's henpecked. If a man allows his woman to overtalk him, or otherwise emasculate him, he's henpecked. Anytime a man compromises his manhood to gain the approval of women, he's a simp. Here's the catch: Most times, his efforts are in vain because she still won't give him the time of day. All that brown nosing he did was for nothing. There are relationships where the women are in charge instead of the man. That is not acceptable in my eyes. A man is supposed to be the head of the home; what he says, goes. It doesn't mean the wife doesn't have a voice, but she speaks her piece and trusts the husband to lead appropriately. If the wife looks more like the man of the house than you (the man), that's a violation. She might as well be single, or raise another adult since she's doing all this. And what's all this nonsense about following a wife's curfew & rules? He's not a child, and should not allow himself to be treated as such. To me, taking verbal abuse would be grounds for immediate divorce. If a man allows verbal abuse from his woman once, she thinks she can pull that stunt repeatedly. The definition of henpecked: Browbeaten, bullied, or intimidated by one's wife or girlfriend. To harass by persistent nagging. Money trumps all! If the man isn't bringing in the income, the woman has no choice but to lead. It hurts, but it's truth.

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