Simping vs. Genuine Interest

There's no such thing as simping for a woman sometimes, there is no such thing as simping for the right woman. There's a big difference in doing things for your lady because she's doing for you, and simping. If you are disrespecting yourself as a man, it's simping. If you're investing more in her than she is in you, you are simping. If you treat her like she is your queen but you're not treated like her king, but a peasant, you're simping. I said it once, I'll say it again, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH TAKING CARE OF SOMEONE WHO TAKES CARE OF "YOU" You have to be stupid to want to get rid of a woman who actually wants to make you happy and that's real. And ladies you are equally stupid to want a man beneath you and got the nerve to call yourself a strong woman. A queen is NOTHING without her King. Why do some people go hard for those who aren't checking for them? That's silly to me. If I'm interested in a woman, don't you think it would make more sense to seek out someone who's equally interested? Most men don't think that way, they pull out all the stops on women that could care less about them and that's what leads some men into bitterness. As stated in a previous commentary, many women seek out men who offer them the world when she doesn't have a passport. That's their perogative but they wouldn't run that on discerned men because a discerned man will flip the script on a woman in a second. Someone who knows their worth will ALWAYS want to know what (s)he is bringing to the table. Some people forget that relationships go both ways, BOTH parties give & take. If one person is doing all the giving and taking, something's wrong. Some of these relationship mindsets confirm my belief that I won't be missing out if I don't want a relationship. Just like a prospective man has to prove himself worthy of a special lady, she has to prove herself worthy of queen treatment. Anything less is uncivilized.