Why cheat? If you're not happy, LEAVE. Cheating is a waste of your time and your partner's. In the end, cheating's not worth it because the time spent sneaking around with another person could be better spent finding someone more compatible. What sounds so simple, people make so complicated. Ok, so someone cheats on their spouse, the other person finds out and gets upset (rightfully so). All kinds of emotions are running through their head: upset/angry, hurt, sad, etc. Remembering the good times they shared, the offended decides to give the other person a 2nd chance. I'm all for 2nd chances but honestly, some people abuse them. When you give someone another shot, you are trusting them not to foul up again because the next time, it's over for good. Reading the above pic, the offender has to feel genuine remorse for their transgression or otherwise, continuing to take someone back after they cheat is giving them a green light. You can't keep giving someone passes when you know they're going to abuse them. Honestly, it's tough deciding to give someone another chance because you don't know if they're for real or trying to jerk your chain. I have zero tolerance for cheating because if I'm giving my woman 1000 reasons to smile, all she needs is one reason to creep and when she does, I'm gone. No second chances. I will forgive her but I can't give her another shot because she'll have a green light to keep cheating knowing I'll take her back. As long as you lay down the law early on in the relationship, there should be no problems. People that continually take someone back after they've cheated are setting themselves up for bitterness because of allowing someone to continually hurt them. Newsflash: If someone cheats on you, they didn't love you because if they did, they would not have crept. Save the "you're never there, you're always working, etc." excuses. In the same manner, if you continually take a cheater back, you have no right to get upset because YOU allow them to hurt you.
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