In light of the incidents involving sexual abuse between male teachers and female students and female teachers with their underage male students, one thing .certain...Sexual abuse stretches across all genders and races. It's true the vast majority of sex abuse cases involve men and little girls but after watching a documentary on Channel 46 that profiled female teachers being charged with sexual relations with their underage male students, women are rapidly catching up to men. Why is there little to no outrage when sexual abuse takes place between older women and underage boys but people are quick to raise hell when a grown man sexes an underage girl? That's a little lop-sided to me. Sexual abuse is foul, no matter who does it. I will point out that most teenage boys have fantasies about being with an older woman and when it happens, they feel good so I guess that's why there's not as much outrage when a female teacher/administrator sexes an underage boy. Let it be the other way around and the man will be crucified. If you're going to be outraged over an incident, it should be all across the board. Women who sexually abuse underage boys SHOULD NOT get a pass because she's attractive. Men don't, so why should she? As the documentary was going on, the narrator brought up an interesting point: The more attractive the predator, the less stiffer sentence she receives. Wow...I guess looks will get you far in life. I read about a story where an attractive female teacher had sex with one of her underage male students; she sends him racy texts & pictures and they meet up one day and do the do. These two teenage boys were giving their $.02 cents and they confirmed a lot of the hypocrisy: Most underage boys dream about being with an older woman and when it happens, they keep it on the low because it was enjoyable mostly for the boy (although I don't doubt she got a kick out of the act). If kids aren't safe at school, where can children go to be safe? I see why many parents opt for homeschool or private school (the incident of sexual abuse is far lower in private schools than public schools).
Yes while girls feel violated and ashamed, boys feel liberated to lose their V card and be with a beautiful older woman. All I can say is if this happened one of my children, someone is going to feel my wrath. A child is a child. Gender doesn't matter.
ReplyDeleteI feel you. Mama bear don't play about her cubs. If you mess with one of her children, it's a wrap for you. It's a shame kids aren't safe at school, the ONE place that they go to learn.
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