Tuesday Word

People don’t defend what’s right anymore, they defend who they like ⚠️

I said it 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Monday Message: Forgive, But Cut Off

 It’s ok to forgive people and still cut them off🫶🏾✌🏾…. I do it all the time 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s called balance and keeping your peace ☮️

3 Things By Esther Rowe

 3 things that don't bother me: 

How they feel about me!🤷🏽‍♀

What they say about me & Why they don't like me!! So Next💅🏽

Reading this puts life in perspective. If we all adopt this attitude, so many of us wouldn’t be worried about why someone dislikes us. For me…I learned early on that not everyone will like me, and I’m fine with that because I know I haven’t given them a reason, so I move on. Life doesn’t stop because someone dislikes you.

Thursday Message

 Detachment getting real easy for me nowadays. I ain't got time to play with nobody.

Tera Carissa Hodges: Why Do Mature People Mind Their Business?

 You know why mature people mind their business? 

Because they understand their life is the only one they can control.

When you get done interfering in somebody else’s life, has your investment portfolio increased? 

Is your marriage better? 

Has your credit score increased? 

Have you pleased God?

That’s why messy people are miserable. 

They’ve got nothing to show for all the time they’ve wasted. 

They’re still underemployed. An emergency would wiped them out financially. Their diet is still not where their doctor would want it to be. They still need to hit the gym. Their dentist hasn’t seen them all year. 

The list goes on!

This is why the blessed should not beef with the miserable, no matter what they try to do or say to provoke you. 

Because when they get done starting a fight, a rumor, gossip, their harvest of misery is already waiting on them to return. 

Thanks to focusing on you and not building their own life, they’ve got nowhere else to go...

Tera Carissa Hodges: Confidentiality Is Key

This post by Tera Hodges is worthy of repost:

Everything you own should not be in your name. 

You can ask your university (post undergrad universities) to shield your information (degrees obtained) unless they have written consent from YOU with identification. 

There’s a reason a #confidentialmarriagelicense is an option.

A skilled family attorney can guide you on how to shield your children’s sensitive information: birth, names, parent, etc.

The people you are the closest with should never be active on your social media. 

When you realize someone close to you is faltering, don’t cut them off immediately. Feed them what you want them to repeat. It’s not your fault they’re disloyal. Use their disloyalty for your good. The fault is on them because loyalty would of kept their mouth shut. 

Don’t advertise where you work. 

When people ask questions, normalize your most immediate response being: why do you want to know. Then, for every reason they give, ask another question pertaining to why. 

Your life is your business and you have options! 

Once again, the goal is not for PEOPLE to be right about you but for LIFE to go right for you. 

Let them wonder how and why you’re so successful. 

It’s a beautiful thing to see your enemy shooting arrows they mean for you but they don’t come anywhere near you. 

That’s why I don’t post too much personal business on social media because anything you say can & will be used against you. Some people on your page are there to be spies, so they can have something to bring back to so & so. I don’t even add colleagues as friends on my social media for that reason.

Jesus Didn’t Charge For Ministry

 If every word from “The Lord” you give has a $ amount attached, you are not a Prophet, you are a fundraiser. Stop lying! Humble yourself! Have integrity and tell the people The Truth!!! You really need help with your rent, child support, car note, etc. Jesus didn’t charge when people came for healing & teaching.