Some women need to stop trying to make men emotional like they are; we’re not & never will be. It takes a lot for a man to show emotion, and when he does…it’s real.
To each their own, but…I can’t have a woman cooking for me. Number one, I’m not built like that & 2: I enjoy taking time to make something myself. Some folks use what they did & do for you against you as soon as y’all fall out.
As I get older, more things become irrelevant to me.
Successful people have no reason to be mad if they feel used. It’s their fault for letting any & everybody in their circle.
For me, it's easy to see why many people are flipping to independent. The Republicans & Democrats are full of crap. It's funny to see supporters of either party bashing each other, as if their party is the best. If the Democrat party is so great, WHY did they start the KKK? I'll wait. Republicans are no better because they've been vocal opponents of student debt relief, and many of them are launching legal challenges to prevent it. Mitch McConnell (Republican) is the most infamous republican because he's been known to block any relief designed to help regular American, but this is the same guy who supports giving tax breaks to the rich. I've been a Democrat for so long until I made a decision to go Independent, because I can no longer support what God's against. Think about it, the Democrats are pushing an ungodly agenda and I won't support that. The Independent party may not be popular, but at least they stand alone.
I've said this before & I'll repeat: Kanye West lost the ONE person who kept him on track, his mother. If Kanye's mother was alive, I'm sure she wouldn't let him carry on with his foolishness. In my opinion, he's doing too much. It sounds like Kanye's not allowing himself to grieve his mother's death because since his mom died, he's been on 10 nonstop. I guess staying busy is how Kanye deals with his mom's death, I don't know. If Kanye has a circle, they're letting him look crazy because they're not pulling him aside and telling him to fall back with the foolery.
Candace Owens is double-minded, which is why I can't take anything she says seriously. First, she criticizes the black community for its perversity, then praises the Super Bowl halftime performance. She needs to pick a side: Support the black community (good or bad) or not. You have people who praise CO for being well-spoken & intelligent. A fool can be intelligent & well-spoken at times. I would respect Candace Owens more if she stuck to a position. If you're hypocritical, be that. If you're going to criticize the black community for glorifying destruction, be consistent. Candace has so many people fooled (not me, because I see through her).
This is a word. Everyone is not supposed to eat at your table. Did they help prepare the meal? No, so why do some people let others eat at their table? Because some people need company, even if the company is bad. I was never this way because I'm content with(out) company. I can eat alone & think nothing of it. The parable: Some successful people allow the wrong people access to their table, and wonder why they feel taken advantage of. Everyone comes with you, can't go with you. As you elevate, your circle drops because some people aren't willing to do the work to go up with you, so they come dead weight. If you're that loyal, I salute you. I'm loyal to a fault, but I'm too old to let people eat at my table who didn't help prepare the meal. If that makes me selfish, I'll be that. If you feel used, it's not the person's fault for using you, it's your fault for allowing them. If you have to, eat alone. It's better for your peace.
Once upon a time, men were MEN. They conducted themselves as such. This term "toxic masculinity" wasn't even thought of. What happened? To me, men have dropped the ball and society is suffering. The above video explains the detrimental effect of toxic masculinity.