Mar 27, 2021

Single Parenthood

Do people that criticize single parents think about the child(ren)'s welfare? I'm asking for myself because for all the critics of single parenthood, it seems like none of them think of the children. I'm all for the family unit (mother & father, plus children), but that's not possible in today's fallen world. Because we live in a broken world, children are born to single parents for whatever reason. Most times, the father leaves the family because he doesn't want the responsibility & the mother has to raise the child(ren) on her own. It's some people who are narrowminded enough to believe that a two parent home is best for children, even if one parent isn't pulling their weight. Let's get this straight: It's better for a child to grow up with two parents even though one parent is around, but not actively involved in the child's life? Miss me with that nonsense. It's children right now with two parents in the home, but one of them isn't helping with the children, so that child technically is in a single parent home even though the deadbeat is physically there. It's always best for a child to grow up in a single-parent home with a stable, responsible parent, no matter if society may say otherwise.


 

Mar 25, 2021

Question Of The Day

 


If the money is coming from HIS pocket, no. If giving his mom money is going to come out of the household, yes, but...he has to replace double what he took to help his mom. Yes, he's the head but the decisions the head makes can affect the family, good or bad.

Mar 24, 2021

Derrick Jaxn Cheating

 


Derrick Jaxn is a relationship influencer who was exposed for cheating on his wife before they married. This is the same guy who preaches how men should do better by their women (and I agree), but now his credibility may be shot in light of this revelation. I'm not talking down on the man because we all foul up in life, and I think he'll rebound from this because he can share his story of how he blew it and got it right. I do have a question: How many married couples have cheated/are cheating right now that no one knows about? Too many. The difference is that many married couples that are cheating don't have his platform so they can hide their infidelity better.

Mar 23, 2021

Sherdavia Jenkins


Today marks what would have been the 24th birthday of Sherdavia Jenkins who on July 1 2006 at the tender age of 9 year-old was killed by a stray bullet while playing in front of her Liberty City (Miami) home in 2006. Many prayers to her family and friends who cherish her memory. Her story was featured on a Miami episode of First 48. The killer was caught and he's doing 50 years to life. Honestly, this story pissed me off because she was just playing in front of her home when a gunfight broke out between two men in the Beans (Pork & Beans), one bullet struck & killed her instantly. Children in the ghetto should be able to play freely without fools shooting. The hood is at an all time low with kids being cut down by gunfire. I can rattle off a list of names of kids who died in the Miami ghetto, but I won't. The sad thing is that her mom died a few years ago.

 

Mar 22, 2021

Fake Love

Me & fake love will never get along because it's not real. I don't want people's love if it's based on what I can do for them, and they shouldn't want my love if it's based on what they're doing for me. Love has become so overused a term that it's lost its meaning. People are quick to say "I Love You" to everyone. 


Mar 19, 2021

Submission

I'm in Facebook groups where a lot of men in relationships complain about non-submissive women. The below tweet sheds light on why some women don't submit, but even if a man is leading correctly, it's still his fault because why would he put a combative woman on his team? That makes 0 sense to me. Men with good leadership ability should seek out submissive women who know he'll lead the right way. Would a General take direction from a Petty Officer?  


Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.