Priorities

This is the same look I have on my face when people's priorities are out of order. These dudes will move heaven and earth for shoes but can't put that same energy into finding a job? Shakes Head, and they have the nerve to complain about being broke. What you value goes into how you handle business; remember that. For me, play comes after taking care of business. Even then, I may not want to have fun because I'm looking ahead to what I need to focus on next. Some people got life twisted. Besides, Jordan is re-releasing the SAME shoe! We need to do better. If not for ourselves, at least for the following generation because they are looking at US for guidance on how to handle business.

I Never Seen A Man Cry

Why is it easier for a man to open up to a woman? I've been thinking a lot about this subject and came up with an answer: Women have that nurturing nature that endears people to them so even the toughest of men will open up. Let a man show weakness in front of other men and it's like "What you crying for, man up, real men don't cry or show emotion, etc." I understand that men were raised to be tough & strong and I can respect that. A young man coming up, he's never seen his father shed tears or show any emotion so he grows up thinking being emotional is for the birds. It's understood that it's acceptable for a man to show emotion under the following circumstances: Loss Of A Loved One, walking his daughter down the aisle on her wedding day, seeing his baby born for the first time, etc. I feel like this, I'm one of the strongest men around so it would take A LOT for me to break down. A man holding it in is like a septic tank, keeping emotions/feelings bottled up creates a strong odor that can become unbearable.

Tit For Tat

After what number of dates should a woman offer to pay after she’s been out on a couple of dates with the same guy?

If he initiated the date, he should pay on the first two dates. Anything after that, they should go back & forth. If one person is doing all the giving and the other person is doing all the taking, that's NOT THE MOVE. That relationship is built on selfishness, like what you can do for me instead of what we can do for each other. That's the problem with relationships, one person wants to reap all the benefits without bringing nothing to the table. Relationships like that WILL NOT last because they are built on selfishness. Regardless of who initiated the date, to expect one person to put in all the work is ridiculous. The other person doing the receiving has nothing to bring to the table except their looks. For discerned men like myself, threatening not to give me sex isn't hurting me because unlike most men, I'm not thirsty. If a man is dropping $200 or more for dates on a woman he's probably not feeling, he's not very intelligent because who's to say if you spend $$$ on a woman, she'll be interested in you? You don't know. Ladies and Gentlemen, don't allow your mate to drive you broke.

Real Mother Daughter Porn Duo Interview / Jessica & Monica Sexxxton Perf...

When that fire & brimstone hits, Florida is FIRST IN LINE! Porn has been around since Biblical days. There are instances of incest mentioned in the Bible (Genesis 20:12, Exodus 6:20, 2 Samuel 13 to name a few). When I read this article on the internet, I couldn't do anything but shake my head. This country has sunk to a new low. Yes, the mother & daughter may not have close sexual contact (I doubt that) but the idea of a mom & daughter doing porn is sickening. You have some people who co-sign this behavior saying "What they do is their business, not yours" If you or anyone else co-signs this extreme ratchetness, you're just as guilty as they are. I guess these two bring a new perspective to "Like Mother, Like Daughter".

Wanting A Good Man

This was inspired by Greg Cross (a Facebook friend). It was so good I have to share:

Ladies! You pray that you want God to bless you with a God-Fearing Man but yet, you disrespect him by not allowing to lead the household & fight for control.

Ladies! You pray to God to give you a husband & someone you can have a future with, but still chasing after men who has no interest in you and/or you chasing after men who are players, thugs, cheaters, liars, dogs, & etc also along with them mistreating you, they mistreat you & you continue to see them as solid men.

Ladies! You pray for a good man, but still you put a good man on the backburner or in the friend zone because you are afraid of trying something that will benefit your future.

Ladies! You pray for a good man, but you walk around as if you do not need one telling yourself you do not need a man, & that you can do bad all by yourself. I got my own what do I NEED A MAN FOR?

Ladies! You pray for a good man but yet & still you do not believe in Black Fathers, nor will you allow yourself to let the Black Fathers be parents because you feel that you are the "Mother & Father".

Ladies! You pray for a good man but somehow you always have something negative to say about good men or men in general. Telling people that "Men ain't shit, It's some weak ass niggas out here, They can't handle a real strong woman like me(Black women say this alot) & etc.

Ladies! You pray for all these things & still have not gotten or have found a man to call your husband. Why is that? It's because due to you wanting to be the masculine one, trying to dominate everything, feeling that you are in control, telling men off when they try to help you, disrespecting the arrangement for marriage that God directed to be, chasing after men that are no good, blaming every man that you get with or left you because of your personal problems, having no respect for black fathers is the reason why you are out here still looking. UNTIL! you can get over the mental incapacity & the insecurities & disrespect that you have, & allowing what it was intended to be for women to be second in command & man first, & realizing that being submissive is not being controlled, but respecting the Godly arrangement, then you will have a husband.

My interpretation: To sum up what Greg stated, until ladies present themselves as relationship material, they have NO RIGHT to pray for a God-fearing man. A God-fearing man will never check for a woman that's not of sound moral character.

Prison=Badge Of Honor?

Since when did going to prison become a badge of honor? These dudes talking about I did 10 years in the pen for such & such crime, etc. These same guys cry about how they can't get a job, the white man is holding them down, etc. It never ends with these guys. Yes, we all have made/make mistakes but you learn from it the FIRST time. Even then, think about the repercussions before you go out and do something stupid. Is it worth it?

A Good Thing

To men who say it's hard to find a good woman:

I think it's mostly in two things: (1) Do you have a healthy perception of yourself because you will attract what you are and (2) Do you have a healthy perception of others because you will most often see what you expect to see.

There are millions of good single women out there. Literally. Focus on getting healthy through Christ first and good women will almost magically appear before your eyes.

While it's somewhat valid that a good woman is hard to find, women are having the same issue with finding a suitable man to call her soulmate. Men and women are in the same boat so both need to tighten up on this bickering.