Make Up Your Mind/Bonus Material

Via Jeffrey Green (Facebook friend)-Women want a man to take care of them, yet they want to remain independent. That's like a man wanting a Wife that will understand he is still screwing other women. 

Honorable Mention: Give me one good non-selfish reason why a single man with NO children over 35 should want to marry a woman with children and raise them as his own? 

Bonus Material

It takes two to tango, but someone doesn't have to dance.

Nip It In The Bud

You're not supposed to have issues early on in marriage. If you're having problems before and during the engagement, they will likely get worse over the course of your marriage.

Ending A Relationship

At what point do you end a relationship? People who ask this question already know the answer. I have 3 giveaways of when it's time to exit stage left: 1. When you've done all you can to salvage it. In that case, let him/her go. No sense in looking crazy. 2. When you have to ask that question, it's that time. 3. The point of no return. For many people, the point of no return comes sooner rather than later.

Short & Sweet

Shout Out to all the parents who let their kid(s) rip & run in public, then catch feelings when other adults check their kid(s). Well, if you did your job as a parent, no one else would have to. That Part.

This Is The Mess I Don't Like

According to many black women, black men are deadbeats, down low, losers, thugs, lazy, uneducated, etc.What does that make her if she laying down with these men? We all make mistakes yes, but to make the same mistake over and over again; something's wrong.  These same women are having babies by these men and have the nerve to pass over stand-up brothers. When these women are done wrong, they want to look for a good man all of a sudden but by that time, that stand-up guy has moved on to a woman that will appreciate him for who he is, not what he has. 

5 Random Thoughts

1. Everybody has their cup out but didn't chip in. Simply put, you have your hand out but aren't willing to contribute to the outcome.

2. Are women trading their cooch on the New York Stock Exchange? You would think so with how they value it. "I have that good good to make a man never stray"

3. Chris Bosh scored a major victory in his custody battle with his baby mama. This cat claims Texas as an official residence instead of Florida because if he claimed Florida, he would have to fork out $30K a month for the next 15 years for his kid's child support.

4.I'm tired of men and women thinking they are entitled to this, that and the third. Get up, get out and make your own way in this world. You can legitimately need help but no one will give you a helping hand. At least when you make it, you can say you did it on your own.

5. Look out for #1 because no one else will (except God).