Apr 8, 2019

Do You Regardless...

I'm a big advocate of doing what's best for you regardless of opposition. If people get upset because you will no longer let them use you, that's their problem and not yours. You're confirming that you made the right decision to finally put yourself first for a change.

Apr 2, 2019

Doing Right With Success

I believe this. Any success that I or anyone else will enjoy in life comes from God. The difference between me and them is that in the process of becoming successful, I try not to forget about the One who blessed me. Far too many people get successful and start acting brand new; they stop kicking it with people they came up with that were loyal to them.

Mar 31, 2019

What's On My Mind?

I'm tired of these so-called Christians bumping their gums about being blessed & highly favored, acting high, holy & sanctified and those are the main ones who are the most foul. I'm talking about turning a child against their father because things didn't work out between them. Let them tell it: They're saved and blessed. I can't get upset when unbelievers say they want no part of God because they see some fake Christians acting like the devil. The worst kind of Christian is one who does dirt and then says they're saved & blessed. If you call that saved, then I must be doing this all wrong. Fake Christians (yes, I call them fake) give the entire name of Christianity a bad name because the world sees the fakes misrepresenting the name of Christ, then want nothing to do with God because of the phony believers. I used to get upset at unbelievers when they say, "If Christians act like that, why should I come to Christ?" but now, I see where they're coming from because I've seen it myself. If I wasn't mature in my walk with Christ, I would've let the bootleg believers deter my walk with God, but because I was rooted in God's word from birth, it's stuck like concrete.
I just feel for the rookie Christians, the ones who just got saved, and are trying to figure out their walk with God. What seasoned believers can they turn to if they have questions about the faith?


Mar 27, 2019

Your Dreams Are For YOU

Your dreams are for YOU, not for everyone. It baffles me that people tell everyone their dream(s), and get upset when people shoot their vision down.

Mar 26, 2019

Marriage Material & Spiritual Maturity


Men and women define marriage material differently, as they should. How a woman feels she's marriage material is different from what a man is looking for.
Look, I get it. Men want a woman that looks like Beyonce and women want a 6'6 chocolate sensation that rocks her world. Yes, God gives us our heart's desires, but he will always give us what we need, first and foremost.

Mar 25, 2019

Scenario

A question was posed in a FB group I'm in that went like this: God sends you a mate that meets 75-100% of your expectations, but he's not physically attractive. Do you accept the mate God sent or bypass? My answer is this: I understand looks are important, but they're not the final say. Looks are going to fade over the years, and then what? You have to have something concrete in order for the relationship to make it.

Mar 23, 2019

Having Others' Back & Not Your Own

One time for the brother who wrote the original tweet. It goes along with what I said plenty of times: Blacks are the first to stand up for other races' plight because "we know how it feels" While blacks are so busy caping for those who don't care about what the black race goes through, who's standing up for us? Who's looking out for us? It's long overdue for black people to start looking out for self, but we have to come together as a people first.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.