Jan 23, 2016

Open Up With Caution

These tweets deal with how people shouldn't be so quick to open up to everyone. The reason why I say you shouldn't open up to everyone is that there are people who are ready to use your details against you.

Jan 22, 2016

Strawberry Letter: Mooching Husband

 
 Her husband is LAZY and doesn’t want to work. I’m sure there were all types of red flags before she married him. Ten years UNEMPLOYED should’ve been more than enough indication of who she married. She enabled him all these years and continues to enable him by tolerating sorry behavior. I don't know any man who would stop working because his wife makes more. Ummmmm.....*long pause*. There's nothing further to say if she doesn't know by now. He's living off her, so why stop now? I'm still stuck on the 10 years unemployment part. If she has children, she needs to tell it like it is TO him and ask him if this is the example he wants to set for his children. Let's be clear, she saw this coming. Mention "unemployed" to today's woman, and she'll side-eye you and leave.

Jan 21, 2016

I Have Discernment

Discernment is one of those overused traits everyone claims to have. Everybody talks about how much discernment they have, like they're the only ones who can have "discernment". Many people talk about discernment, but they have no idea what it means. Discernment is keen perception or judgment. While others look at the surface, discerners see things from a spiritual standpoint. This term is popular in Christianity because of the spiritual aspect. If you have discernment, who are you trying to convince by talking about it? What's understood doesn't need an explanation. If you have discernment, it speaks for itself. It shows in the decisions you make and the company you keep. Discerners are very careful before they make decisions. They look for the greatest outcome and proceed. If something doesn't feel right to a discerner, forget it. My point: Everyone who says they have discernment, doesn't. You couldn't tell someone has discernment because they continually make poor decisions. Discernment is one of those silent gifts. You let it speak for you in the way you move and think. If something doesn't feel right, that's your discernment telling you something's wrong.

Jan 20, 2016

Repost From Robin Butler

Robin Butler
January 15 at 9:42pm ·
Some people can't understand God's word yet. That's why they sit in church worried about the football game and what they going to eat. Wishing the pastor would hurry up while the man next to them shouting "take your time preacher!".....let me break it down for you.

You know how you feel when your football team down by the 2 point conversation and they make that amazing catch just in time and you run shouting and spraying vodka everywhere....this is the feeling Christians get when they can witness and amen to what the pastor saying bc they been there.

The SUPERBOWL come once a year. Imagine that feeling coming every morning, everyday because of your relationship with God. Not everyone will understand your praise! This is why a child of God can still smile when they going thru because we know we already have the victory. Just like nobody can talk noise to you about your team after they won the game. Nothing they say matter because WE WON!!! ‪#‎Gotthevictory

Jan 19, 2016

Raw Truth






Jan 18, 2016

Ep 11: Ms. Parks Goes to Washington

Ep 11: Ms. Parks Goes to Washington: Phaedra hosts a trip to the nation’s capital to garner support for her Save Our Sons organization and invites a few of the ladies to tag along. During their visit to Congress, Kim once again finds herself on the outskirts of the festivities. Kenya's family drama continues after she returns from Detroit resulting in an argument with her Aunt Lori.

Yesterday's RHOA Episode was scattered for many reasons, but most of the episode centered on Kenya's family drama. I read Kenya's memoir she posted on social media and it was powerful. Her memoir was about the abandonment she suffered at a young age & how that has affected her today. I'm going to be real: I feel bad for Kenya because she's a sweet person, just misunderstood. From the time she came onto RHOA, she's had a target on her head. Other than Cynthia & Marlo, Kenya doesn't have too many friends on RHOA because she's had shade thrown her way. Kenya deserves closure from her family drama, but when her mom still wanted nothing to do with Kenya after 40 years, that's all the closure Kenya needed. She needs to understand that she can't force her mom into a relationship with her. If her mother doesn't want a relationship, that's her loss. Kenya has been through too much to keep rehashing that hurt. Aunt Lori made me mad when she came down on Kenya for wanting to talk to her mother. Bravo to Kenya for turning up on Aunt Lori saying how she has every right to see her mother. Through all of that, Kenya has her relationship with her father, plus her dad's side of the family, so she has more than enough people showing her love. Out of sight, out of mind.
Phaedra invited Porsha, Kim & Sheree to Washington, DC to garner support for her Save Our Sons campaign. She met with influential black congressmen & congresswomen, and the only women who showed Phaedra support was Porsha (yes, the Princess of Thotland) and Sheree. Sheree and Phaedra had more in common during the DC trip because they're mothers to black sons. Some touching moments were various mothers who shared stories of how their sons were slain by policemen. Kim Fields irked me because she kept getting up and taking her kids outside. Look, she should have left her children with her husband or other family. Kim disrespected Phaedra because she didn't have to invite Kim. If Kim wasn't taking her kids outside every 2 minutes, her idiot son Sebastian was making stupid snide comments like "I'm going on this trip to meet stupid Congress people. Who cares." I don't like going in on kids, but I will in this case. He made himself look stupid with those comments. I have more respect for Phaedra for not shielding her kids from the reality of racial prejudice. There are some things kids need to be shielded from, but racial prejudice isn't one of them. Kim Fields took a major L for this.
 

Jan 17, 2016

Everyone Has A Story

Everyone has a story. Whether it's having a good or bad start in life, we all have a story. The problem is some people don't share their story for fear of some people looking down on them. People are going to look down on you one way or another, but you can't let the ignorant crowd stop you from telling your story. For every lame looking down on your story, there's people who could be inspired by your story. It's your story that could give someone hope that they can make it just like you. I enjoy hearing people's stories because many of their stories are identical to mine. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think anyone should be ashamed of their past, especially if they have went through terrible storms to be successful.  If someone looks down on your story, that's their problem. They need to kick rocks with no shoes on. If you're not going to be a blessing, don't be a hindrance. People need to keep their negativity to themselves.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.