Jan 15, 2016

Fishing For An Apology

When someone does you wrong, expect no apology from them. Most times, they'll apologize just to shut you up. We all know people who fish for apologies after being wronged. Nothing wrong with that because I believe if you wrong someone, you should make it right with them. Unfortunately, not everyone was raised correctly. When someone's is done wrong, the offender falls into one or more categories: 1. They feel they've done nothing wrong so they don't apologize. 2. They don't care if they've hurt you. 3. They apologize to shut you up. People in this category aren't sincere in their apology, they want you to stop fishing for an apology from them so they give you what you want. Just about everybody fits into these 3 categories if they're guilty of hurting somebody. Everyone has been hurt, is hurting or will be hurt at some point in time, that's life. I know it's easier said than done for some people, but folks should learn how to develop thick skin and learn a tough lesson: Everyone who hurts you either will not apologize because they don't care, they don't feel they've wronged you or will give you a half-hearted apology to shut you up. This may not be what folks want to hear, but it's a sad truth. The sooner some folks learn this lesson, the better off they will be because they will be able to see people for who they really are.
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Jan 14, 2016

Lotto Fever: $1.5 Billion jackpot

Since the jackpot increased to $1.5 billion, people have caught lotto fever. Everyone talking about what they're going to do with their newfound wealth if they won, but here's the catch: The odds of winning the lotto are 1 in 292,000,000 so you're wasting your time & money playing. Someone seldom wins the lotto unless they have a 6th sense to help them pick winning numbers. If you're that person, hook me up with the winning lottery number formula so I can win every time. Anyway, you have wealthy people playing the powerball jackpot and why? They're sitting on plenty money, so they don't need to play. How much money does a rich person really need? Let the middle & working class have a shot at winning that huge jackpot. Seriously, there's a term to describe those folks and that's GREED. Greed is the only word I can describe already-wealthy folks playing the powerball so they can win more billions.
Whenever I hear about someone winning hundreds of millions in the lotto jackpot, my first thought is they're going to be broke within a year. Why? Everybody and their mama will come forward looking for a handout. People be like: We've been tight since grade school, or remember when I looked out for you that time? What about those "family & friends" that strategically come out when you come into hundreds of millions of dollars from the lotto? "Family & friends" that you've never seen from Day 1, but all of a sudden they want to be cool with you because they see you came into money, get out of here because I see through you. You can quickly tell who's not used to money because anytime they win tens or hundreds of millions from the lottery jackpot, the first thing they do is spend foolishly: Buy a mansion in the most expensive neighborhood in their city, buy a dozen high-end vehicles, take expensive vacations and eat in expensive restaurants; repeat cycle until they run out of money and they're back to reality.
If it's meant for me to win hundreds of millions in the jackpot, life won't change for me that much. At the most, my nieces will be set for life and I'm investing the rest while living on the interest.
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Jan 13, 2016

Misery Loves Company

Misery Loves company, and it's true. You can tell how much power you have over someone when they go out of their way to make your life miserable. It's like if they can't be happy, neither will you. You may have done someone wrong, but if you've made it right with them & God, they should be able to move on. At least you were (wo)man enough to apologize, which is more than I can say for most people. Before I evolved, I used to go out of my way to make those who hurt me lives miserable, but after much work, it wasn't worth it. While they're keeping it moving, I'm sitting back looking crazy plotting on them. I'm spending energy that could've been used being productive on trying to make someone feel what I feel. Am I going to intentionally mistreat anyone? No, I know better. I wouldn't want anyone wasting their time trying to make me miserable because it won't work. I stay covered under the blood, so nothing can penetrate that blood without my consent. I feel it's pointless going out of your way to make someone's life miserable if they've hurt you. Let Karma do its work, because Karma knows everyone's address.
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Jan 12, 2016

Real Talk 2016

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Jan 11, 2016

RHOA Ep 10: Trouble on the Family Tree

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Jan 10, 2016

Married Men: Strawberry Letter


I don’t believe a woman puts off any signal(s) that she dates married men. That’s a bunch of crap. Whether they’re married men or single men, men by nature are predators so they will come on to any woman that they are attracted to. Period.

It’s up to HER to decide whether she wants to be bothered with a man who she KNOWS is married. That’s the difference.

A woman who loves, values, and respects herself will not allow herself to be used as a married man’s side cookie. She will have nothing to do with married men because she knows that a married man who sleeps with other women other than his wife is a liar and cheater who lacks morals.

Then we have THIS lady…..a woman who CHOSE to roll with married men and has been doing so since age 16. You are the opposite of the type of woman I described above.

Granted, she may not have known the marital status of these men from the jump. It’s a fact that the majority of men are never forthcoming and honest about their marital status. But once she found out, she could have simply walked away and had nothing else to do with them. She didn’t. As long as they took care of her, she continued sexing them.

I hope she's not fooling herself into thinking she's irreplaceable. They can and will drop her in a heartbeat when they're tired of her. They stick around for the sex because that’s what she's offering. They play on her emotions by “talking” to her to keep her around for sex.

An intelligent, no nonsense, self respecting woman has married men all figured out. SHE DOESN'T.

She has time to get herself together.
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Jan 9, 2016

Tell It Like It Is

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