Jan 11, 2016

RHOA Ep 10: Trouble on the Family Tree

Jan 10, 2016

Married Men: Strawberry Letter


I don’t believe a woman puts off any signal(s) that she dates married men. That’s a bunch of crap. Whether they’re married men or single men, men by nature are predators so they will come on to any woman that they are attracted to. Period.

It’s up to HER to decide whether she wants to be bothered with a man who she KNOWS is married. That’s the difference.

A woman who loves, values, and respects herself will not allow herself to be used as a married man’s side cookie. She will have nothing to do with married men because she knows that a married man who sleeps with other women other than his wife is a liar and cheater who lacks morals.

Then we have THIS lady…..a woman who CHOSE to roll with married men and has been doing so since age 16. You are the opposite of the type of woman I described above.

Granted, she may not have known the marital status of these men from the jump. It’s a fact that the majority of men are never forthcoming and honest about their marital status. But once she found out, she could have simply walked away and had nothing else to do with them. She didn’t. As long as they took care of her, she continued sexing them.

I hope she's not fooling herself into thinking she's irreplaceable. They can and will drop her in a heartbeat when they're tired of her. They stick around for the sex because that’s what she's offering. They play on her emotions by “talking” to her to keep her around for sex.

An intelligent, no nonsense, self respecting woman has married men all figured out. SHE DOESN'T.

She has time to get herself together.

Jan 9, 2016

Tell It Like It Is

Jan 8, 2016

#WasteHis/HerTime

The hashtags #WasteHisTime2016 & #WasteHerTime2016 are trending on social media. People figure out ways to waste someone's time, such as taking a woman out to eat and leaving her with the bill, some men getting women pregnant and running off, etc. Some of the tweets are savage, others are hilarious. Let me show you a few samples:

 These WasteHisTime & WasteHerTime tweets are the reason why relationships don't work in this generation. They're nothing more than promoting folks playing games with each other. Again, some of these tweets are funny, but the rest are savage.

Jan 7, 2016

Real Talk 2016: Week Of 1/4

Too many people lose sight of this important message:

Jan 6, 2016

Different Routes, Same Destination

2+2=4, and so does 3+1, and 4+0.
10×10=100, and so does 50+50, and 300-200.
One million, 1,000,000, and 500,000×2 are all different ways to write the SAME sum down.
Just because the way you found resolves were entirely different from the next individual, it doesn't automatically mean your way is more valuable.
Sometimes, people must choose a different way to reach the SAME goals as you have.
‪#‎WisdomThought‬

Jan 5, 2016

Christians Denouncing Christ

I expect an unsaved person to denounce Christ because they don't know any better, but for a so-called Christian to denounce Christ is foul. I read an article about a former Newsboys (Christian rock band) member denouncing Christianity and now becoming an outspoken Atheist. He says he's "lost his faith in God" What's wrong? He got in his feelings because God didn't answer many of his prayers, or some unfortunate incident caused him to turn from Christianity. I'm sick of these fake Christians denouncing Christ. Any Christian denouncing Christ wasn't a Christian to begin with. This former Newsboys Christian rock band member wanted an excuse to renounce Christianity so he decides to use the "I lost my faith in God" excuse.
Nothing in this world will shake my faith in God, and I've had vicious trials in my life. Too many Christians are flaky; they're committed to Christ as long as he's blessing them. Let trials hit and you'll find out what they're made of. I have NO respect for any ex-Christian who denounces Christ because that shows (s)he wasn't loyal to God from jump street. On second thought, I'm glad some Christians are denouncing Christ because there's no use for flaky Christians in God's kingdom. I'm speaking of the ones who renounce Christianity under the guise of "enlightenment." They call themselves "having their eyes opened to the reality of Christianity", I call it foolishness because that's exactly what it is.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.