Jan 4, 2016

RHOA Episode 9: Shade For Days

Jan 2, 2016

Keeping It Real in 2016

This year, my blogs are going to be more real because I've got some stuff to get off my chest. I'll still drop encouragement from time to time, but my writing will reflect more of my realness.
Bonus (This is from my ace Nyca)

Dec 31, 2015

Free Milk: Kendra Winters

Salute to Kendra Winters for this message on her FB page:

Kendra Winters
1 hr ·

Early Morning Meditation :

"Why buy the Cow when your getting the Milk for free?"

This was a saying I truly did not understand as a child growing up, and wondered why the elders of my community would say this. Than as I grow and continue to follow and listen to my Heavenly Father daily, one day this "Saying" popped up in my spirit.

And truly the clarification of this "Old Ancient" saying became so clear. And this morning as I meditate, than log on to facebook, while recalling a conversation I had with several dudes.
I see so many of you BEAUTIFUL, BUSINESS MINDED, EDUCATED young and old ladies "Allowing yourself to give your milk away for free" and some have been wondering why you have not received that ring of engagement, and that marriage you so elated to have.

And the answer is HE DON'T HAVE TO BUY meaning ( put a ring on it, committee to it, do anything different) because he is receiving EVERYTHING FOR FREE meaning ( cooking, cleaning, sex, bills paying, establishing his image, everything that a WIFE do) your doing without even having him purchase that Ring and Marrying you.

Make 2016 for some of you and greater demand from the opposite sex. Don't keep giving your "MILK" (body, sex, love, emotions) to somebody that truly only getting what you allow them with no regards to purchasing you (Marrying).
‪#‎NoMoreMask2016‬ ‪#‎NewLifeMinistry‬ ‪#‎WomenOfExcellence‬ ‪#‎Outreach‬ ‪#‎FlyWithPurpose‬ ‪#‎NoMoreCocoons‬ ‪#‎BeautifulButterflies‬

PS. No more Free Milk, make them buy the cow.

Blessings

Dec 30, 2015

12/30: Definition Of Real

The original tweet was posted by SelfMadeBluntz, I put my stamp of approval on.
AGREED:

Dec 29, 2015

Are CD's Becoming Extinct?

  Are CD's becoming extinct? That's the question I ask myself because most artists put their albums on VEVO so fans can listen to the entire album. If they like the album, they're more inclined to support that artist because they've had a chance to listen to the album before buying the CD. Between YouTube and leaking albums, I'm surprised albums are still selling. The music industry has had to adapt to the technology industry because technology provides a potential untapped market. If my favorite artist puts out an album online and I listen to the entire album and like it, I'm able to buy the CD because I've heard their music. In the old days, you didn't have that flexibility because technology hasn't advanced like it has now.
What if someone bought an album they didn't like? They've wasted $15 on a CD they weren't checking for. If artists promote their music through social media, they gain more support than they would if they promoted the old-fashioned way, word of mouth, mixtapes, etc. You have some artists who do both: Promote their music via VEVO/YouTube and do shows, put out mixtapes, etc., but social media makes it possible for artists to reach a wider audience by promoting their music. No matter the artist's popularity, it's guaranteed they have a YouTube VEVO page or social media account. Listening to albums on VEVO can be a blessing & curse. It's a blessing because the consumer's able to judge whether the album is worth buying, and it's a curse because the artist loses potential money from album sales.

Dec 28, 2015

RHOA Episode 8: No Business Like Friend Business

Dec 26, 2015

Married At First Sight

  I'm tickled by the show Married At First sight for one reason: Watching couples fake it until they make it on national TV is pure comedy. I mean, I've only watched one episode and I know 100% of those couples are not compatible. Why would they? They don't know each other. All these couples do is get married & go on honeymoons, and then spend time with each other. What kind of foolishness is that? I thought the honeymoon phase comes AFTER marriage, but I was wrong.
Married At First Sight makes a mockery of marriage because it sends the message you need to find someone quick, or your life will pass you by. I couldn't be on that show because I don't believe in rushing marriage. Marriage is a big decision, one that requires careful planning. You have to love someone in the good & bad times, and to me this show doesn't do marriage justice at all. Those couples know they don't love each other, they're putting on a show for notoriety & fortune.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.