Dec 23, 2015

Truest Stuff I've Ever Said

Honestly, I manage to outdo myself on my tweets. Just when I think I can't get anymore real, lo & behold I outdo myself. That's the mark of a good blogger, always making sure content stays fresh, which I do. Anyway, let me post my top tweets:


This tweet was so good, I pinned it.


Dec 22, 2015

Thought For Today: 12/22/15

Thought For Today:
Many people talk a good game about wanting peace of mind, but very few back it up. What I mean is that many people are scared to X toxic people out of their lives because they think they're being selfish by actually putting THEIR desire for peace over overlooking someone's "flaws". I'm not afraid to X toxic folks out of my life, and I don't care who's slighted. I'm not trying to give some people repeated green lights to keep subtracting from my life. If that makes me selfish, I embrace that all the way. There's nothing wrong with putting yourself first.

Dec 21, 2015

RHOA: Miami Pt. 2

Last night's RHOA was a redo of the Miami trip, so these tweets will center around that. Oh, and some of my tweets will go in on Phaedra so let's get to it.

Dec 20, 2015

Strawberry Letter: Widow Needs Some Good Loving


If she's a 44-year old widow and married for 30 years prior to her husband's death, she got married at 14. She needs to learn self love. 30 years married with children; she needs to learn to love and get to know herself so when she finds a man, not one in the bar or clubs, but one whose doing better things with his time, she will be treated right, and will know what she wants. Her daughters think she's disrespecting the memory of their father by acting fast, so I understand them being upset. Mom might want to slow down and take some REAL time to get over her husband's loss because this is not the way to do it.

Dec 19, 2015

Stepping On Toes

This tweet is so real, I had to pin it

Dec 18, 2015

ICYMI: Should I Leave or Let Him Sponsor Me? | Steve Harvey in the Morning | WDAS


When I read these Strawberry Letters, the answers are usually inside the letter as to what the person should do. I'm going to shut this down quick, so let's get to it:

“I mean, will it seem like I'm using him? Would I be wrong for doing
that?”… It's the other way around Miss.
“He says he doesnt love me, and doesnt know if he can have a future with me (There It Is, he's not worried about building a life with her)

He cares for me and doesn't want me to leave, because
I'm the good woman he needs in his life (Translation: Let me PLAY
YOU for as long as I can).

He wants me to have his children (which he would want full custody
of) and says that we would be great parents even if we are not together”
(Not only does he have an EXIT PLAN, but he’s laid it out in detail!)
“He is a really nice person, takes care of me and provides
for me like a man should, but he's a liar and cheater” To her, none of that matters).
“Should I pack up and go, or stay and let him continue being my “sponsor”… (sponsor you for what, YOU SPECIAL olympics?)

Dec 17, 2015

ICYMI: I Want To Date My Sister's Ex-Boyfriend | Steve Harvey in the Morning | WDAS


First and foremost, there is a level of respect that is not being given here. There is also a boundary that she's about to cross. The sister code does not allow for such things. It is not ok by any means to date a family member's ex. She wants to lay(Be intimate) with someone that her sister laid with? I can guarantee Mama or Daddy will not like this, nor will they accept such foolery. There are plenty of men in the world for her to establish a relationship with. Also, a relationship that comes easy will end as such. She needs to get out and find someone else she may be compatible with. Did she consider that this man may have an ulterior motive? Men don’t like to be disrespected and she may be the pawn in his spiteful game.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.