I Can't Stand Women Who Can't Stand Other Women!!!!

 

I got this video from a friend's Facebook page. She gives her $.02 on women not liking other women. She speaks REAL TALK so it behooves my viewers to listen closely to the words she says. A few things she says that caught my attention are "I get along better with men." Yes, we all gel better with certain people and that's okay. Statistically, 2% of the population will not like you for any or no reason. That's okay because not everyone is meant to be in your life. It's true some women get along better with men but that's because they've gotten to know them. Some women grew up around men so they haven't been exposed to fellow women. To say you can't stand someone of your gender when you haven't gotten to know them is flaw, to me. True, women have sound reasons for not liking other women and many of the reasons make sense: Cattiness is a big reason for many women not liking each other. A woman can't stand to see another woman looking or doing better than her; the first thing she says is "Oh, look at that heffer, she thinks she all that." Some women do think like this too! I like what she said about a man on a mission: The most important women in a man's life are his mother, aunts & niece(s). If his woman can't get along with his mother or aunt, then she won't be a good wife. It boils down to commonality. If a woman has more in common with men, that's her perogative. Maybe she genuinely feels comfortable around men because let's be honest, if she's in a dangerous situation, her male friends have no hesitation protecting her. Flipping the script, if two women are out enjoying themselves and they find themselves in a volatile situation, chances are those women don't have the street smarts to handle themselves and unless a man steps in, it won't bode well. Sometimes, women have legit reasons not to like each other but most of the time, women not liking each other boils down to jealousy: One woman looks and dresses better than the next, assumptions, etc.

Baltimore Ravens: Super Bowl Champions

 

Congratulations to the Baltimore Ravens for their Super Bowl win. Not even a power outage could help the 49'ers. Baltimore wanted it more, that's all. I really thought the game would be a blow out because at half time, the Ravens were up by 3 TD's so there was no way San Francisco was able to come back. I believe Baltimore would've beaten San Francisco like they stole something had the power outage not happened. But, the outage revived the 49'ers as they were able to come back from 3 TD's, but fell short of a SB win. I guess, this makes the first time San Francisco has lost in the Super Bowl. Congratulations to the 49'ers for a successful season, they will be remembered for mounting a huge comeback and even though they fell short by a field goal, they still deserve congratulations. Ray Lewis was talking about retirement after this season and now he can retire on a high note. Ray Lewis is the leader of the Ravens so I know he will be missed by the organization. He's one of my favorite players and it won't be the same seeing him in uniform. He deserves to retire because he's won a couple rings, made lots of money so he needs to kick back and enjoy himself. This was one of the best Super Bowls I've watched in a long time because it was a storybook ending to Ray Lewis's great career. Now that football season is over, it's time for me to focus on basketball. The final score was 34-31, Baltimore over San Francisco. Again, congrats to the 49'ers for making it this far.

Real Man=Going To Prison?

 

Like the pic states, if the men above are real n****s because they're in prison, what does that say for the upstanding brothers below? Are they not real men because they're making an honest living? You see where the above men are at. Sadly, some women are attracted to locked up men because they're "bad boys" She can have all the bad boys she wants. Those guys at the bottom are the real productive black men because they're going places in life. They are enjoying the fruits of their labor and most of all, they're free. They can come & go as they please with no boundaries, they're not locked down 23 hours a day with only an hour for recreation. No ma'am. I'm not casting judgment on the above guys because none of us are perfect. Everybody has made bad choices in life, some bad choices are severe enough to land you behind bars, but that doesn't mean the above guys can't straighten up once they are released. I just think it's trifling that bad boys are celebrated over respectable men. When a woman's done wrong by one of the above guys, all of a sudden she wants a good man. The issue is that no good man will give her a shot because in his mind, he's thinking "Back then she didn't want me, now I'm doing good, she wants me". Who can blame them? I'm a stand-up brother who's going places in life and I refuse to do anything that would jeopardize my journey. Besides, once the above guys are released, they've got the odds stacked against them as they re-enter society.

Fast Food, Fast Women

Nojma Reflects

Yesterday

Sisters let look at the correlation between fast women and fast food.

-Both are easily accessible

-Both require little to no effort

-Both are open well after midnight....some are open 24 hours a day

-Neither is good for you physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually

-Both are very convenient ....all you have to do is "drive through"

-Both are quick and easy to get

-Neither one requires any discipline

A home cooked meal is something that requires preparation, and thought, the spices have to marinate, it has to simmer, it takes time, there is quality in it....after a man has a "home cooked" meal he will understand that one leaves him wanting while the other satisfies his soul.

So Sisters, you can either be viewed as a "quick convenience” or as a "long lasting companion"...the choice is yours!

Brothers......be mindful of who you allow to "feed" you!

My View: Another banger from Ms. Nojma. Every time I read her writing, it's always on point and then some. It's easier to go after something that requires little to no effort than put in work to get what you desire. Fast Food & Fast Women have one thing in common: Both provide temporary satisfaction but you're stuck wanting more and more.

The Reasons Why Men Don't/Won't Get Married

The following is a list of reasons men don't or won't get married according to Jeffrey Green:

A) He is having too much fun being single.

B) He doesn't Want to Be, Nor is he Trying to understand why he should be the provider for a woman who makes more money than Him..

C)First wife took him to the CLEANERS in the Divorce and he never is going to let that happen again, It's not that he is bitter, angry or hurt. Its because, to him its completely illogical and counterproductive in light of all the Things he had to do to recover himself emotionally and Financially to get his life back together, to ever put himself in that position again..

D) He Is 40+ and has his stuff together and he is Looking For a Woman that Matches his Vision for himself at this stage of life.

E)He realizes that a woman wants to and knows how to ride his back, But she can't/won't/don't really know how to guard his back.

F) He is older and accomplished. He likes solitude and views a wife as weakness

*Yah (God) did say it was good for some men not to marry*

My view: All of these are right on target. Some men, just like some women don't want to be married because they don't want to give up their freedom & independence for someone else. When you get married, there's an unwritten rule that states you give up the I's for Us's. That's what most people don't understand. You can't go into a marriage thinking it's all about you. You have to be able to give more than you're getting in return. Let's be real here, sometimes the man is going to give more and the woman is going to give more; no way around it. The problem lies when one person is doing all the giving & receiving; of course you'll have a lopsided relationship. I did a blog commentary on Due Diligence that went into great detail on how to select the right mate and this subject ties into that. If people did their due diligence, they would be able to snuff out those who come to them with their hands out, expecting to be pampered and not having to reciprocate. When a man's been cleaned out by his first wife, he would be stupid to jump blindly into another relationship without doing his homework. Otherwise, what's the point of going through that ordeal? Each failed relationship gives you a greater understanding of what you do & don't want. When one has been hurt by their ex and their relationship ends, it behooves him/her to take some time to work on self BEFORE jumping into another relationship. You don't want to bring old baggage into a new relationship. I say this when necessary: Don't bring your baggage to the terminal, get rid of your baggage before you board the flight.

How I Hurt The Community?

 

As stated before, I've started following Mr. Sotomayor and aside from his rants, this has got to be the realest segment he's ever done. The gist of this commentary is this: If you don't like what Tommy speaks about, DON'T LISTEN! Simple huh? You would think so but some people like his videos and comment just to make him look bad. You have people making fake accounts just to clown Tommy. If you don't like someone, why go through the trouble of making an account just to state your dislike? It's nonsensical. Tommy's haters are giving him more fame, that's the way I see it. He said it himself, "Stop following my page if you don't like what I say. If I'm not doing something you want or like, YOU DO IT!" It's a classic move: Gaining fame off someone else's name. What Tommy does is challenge societal norms he has issues with and I can respect that. Yes, he does generalize at times (we all do) BUT...when you listen to what he has to say, he makes a lot of sense. I will continue posting his videos on my page and giving my own views on the subject matter. That's the beauty of America, if you don't like what someone else is doing or saying, you have your own voice. Put yours out there and gain a fanbase. Problem Solved.

Rapper Rick Ross Caught In Drive By Shooting!

 

The hottest story in the media is the attempted murder of rapper Rick Ross. I don't wish death on NOBODY and I pray that Ross gets some shooters on his team that'll watch his back. At the same time, Ross had it coming because for one thing, he talks about a life he never lived. When you rap about the streets, you better be credible because there are real soldiers that take the thug life seriously. Granted, all rappers probably never lived the street life but I'm sure nobody has tried to take them out. Ross needs to lay low for a while but knowing Ross, he's not going to let fear creep in his heart. I respect Ross for making it out of the hood and giving back. Not many brothers are blessed enough to leave the hood. It is my understanding that Gangster Disciples are upset at Ross for mentioning Larry Hoover and are demanding he cut them a check. I'm glad the shooters missed, but next time they might not. My thing is, if the gunmen aren't caught quickly, they will try to finish the job.