The Law Of Reciprocity

 Never forget, this world is round.

That means…

What goes around, comes around. 

You reap what you sow. 

And a harvest is always greater than its seed.

That means, what you put out, will come back around greater.

Thursday Real Talk: Dislike From Demons

 Credit to Glory Brown Inspiration Coach

Some people will never like you because your spirit disturbs their demons. The Lord will always protect you from those who weren't created to walk with you in purpose. Do not spend your emotional wealth nor energy trying to find a reason for their perceived rejection of you. Understand that God is intentional in His protection of your heart, destiny and salvation. Your journey is too important to worry about those who aren't for you. Thank God for revelation, and move on.

This is a word!🙏 Good! I don’t want demons around me. I thank God for removing those who aren’t for me. I hate demons with everything in me.

Seeing People As They Are

 I used to see good in others until I started seeing them for what they are! If you’re foul, I’ll see you that way. If you’re solid, I see you as that, and so on

Girl X-Chicago

 Girl X is a name given to a young girl who was savagely raped, beaten, forced to drink rat poison & left for dead in Chicago’s notorious Cabrini-Green projects (which are now gone). This crime rocked Chicago because the scumbag tried to pin the attack on the Gangster Disciples, a legendary Chicago street organization. Even they were furious at the attack because leaders ordered members to find & kill the attacker. I don’t condone gangs, but even they have enough heart not to hurt children. Back then, old gangsters had a code that members could NOT hurt women, children or old people. From what I read, the young lady is doing well even though she’s permanently disabled. I hope she can make a full recovery. What’s worse is she got almost no coverage. Because she was an inner-city child who was victimized, the media didn’t bother covering her story outside Chicago.

Plotting

Someone out there plotting on you right now for petty, ignorant reasons!  What they fail to realize is that the same traps they attempt to set for you, will be the same traps they stumble in.  Be at peace and rest knowing that their plots can’t destroy you!  #coveredbyGod

If some people spent more time working on themselves instead of plotting on others, they would be better off.

Thursday Real Talk

 If someone shows you they don’t rock with you, 🛑 double checking! It takes one time for someone to show me they don’t like me (vice versa), and I move around.

Tera Carissa Hodges: You’re Not Obligated

 You’re not obligated to restore people who did you wrong to get somewhere and now that they’re where they want to be, they want peace.

You’re not obligated to restore people who bad mouthed you when they believed you were doing better than them and now that they’ve improved their circumstances and feel closer to your level, they want to reconnect.

You’re not obligated to restore anyone. 

#Forgiveness doesn’t mean restoration.

Tuesday Gospel

When your enemies are planning how to harm you, God is also planning how to stop them. 

Exposure

 Repost (Glory Brown Inspirational Coach)

We (myself included) need to heed this word:

GOD is exposing who you should remove ties with. #PayAttention 🗣

Everyone that comes with you, can’t go with you.

God’s Getting Ready To Blow Your Mind

 Repost from Glory Brown Inspiration Coach

The Enemy Wants You To Lose Your Mind, But God’s Getting Ready To Blow Your Mind.

Self Check Thursday

Plenty of times we ask God to bless us in certain areas of our life! How are you preparing yourself for the shift?!?! 

God is already on go! 

James 2:26

#selfcheckformyself 

Wednesday Message

 I don’t care how much scripture you quote…

How do you treat people?! 

#message

Today’s Message

 I read a post asking if it's ok for men to cry, and as usual, it's women who see nothing wrong with a man crying. For me, if a man sheds tears because he's thankful for what God has done in his life, I can respect that. A man crying for any reason outside the loss of a loved one, I can't respect it. You have men crying over their woman cheating on them, and in my mind I'm😒because it's not that serious. She cheated, big deal. She showed you she wasn't about nothing, time to move on.

Stay Away

Stay away from people who do you wrong & blame you for them doing you wrong.

Real Talk Kim: Stop People Pleasing

I follow a minister who goes by the name Real Talk Kim, and she posted this:

Here's a reminder for all of the people pleasers out there: Jesus was literally perfect and people still hated him. Quit putting your worth in what others think about you instead of what God thinks about you.

My response: Preach, Teach & Proceed! I’m not trying to please anyone except Christ.🤷🏾‍♂️No matter how good I am, some people will never be pleased, so I’m done.

Throwback Confession

 #Confession 

I’m pro-life, but I understand why some women choose to get an abortion. Like it or not, a woman shouldn’t be criticized for aborting her baby if the child was conceived through rape, or the child may be born disabled. Let’s keep it real: Raising special needs children is not easy. You have to be built Ford tough for that.

Let’s not talk about rape. Some folks have the nerve to say a woman should keep a child that was born through rape? Miss me with that. It’s usually Christians who like to say “God can take what’s meant for evil and use it for good” When Christians tell a woman “God can take what’s meant for evil and use it for good”, they’re discounting her feelings. They don’t care what she’s going through or how she’s feeling, which is a bad look on Christianity.😒

Nikki Brooks: I’m Tired Of This Church

 The lack of Emotional Intelligence that is consistently displayed - especially in the name of Christ - is just downright embarrassing.

The way we promote the absence of common sense and call it “the anointing” or “truth in love” is just downright ANNOYING.

Churchfolk have run an entire generation out the doors and have the nerve to blame it on them being rebellious.

The church’s collective REFUSAL to address culture issues and promote change is a wicked form of stubbornness.  And this flossing over feelings and promoting abuse and oppression with prayer is EPIDEMIC and shows up in every area from marriage to education to family matters to civil matters.

How do we Specialize in correcting others but allergic to feedback....How do we consistently point out eye specks while doing nothing about the 2*4’s in our heads.... Just POWERLESS. 

#TiredOfThisChurch

Today’s Message

 You cannot stand on business without taking accountability!

What Does Peace Require?

 Sometimes, peace requires you to be quiet even if you're right!

If…

 If it’s not:

Making Me Happy

Better

Bringing Joy & Peace

I don’t want it…😎

Heal: Esther Rowe (Facebook)

 This puts healing into perspective. Healing is for us, not the offender(s).

Heal. Your mom may never apologize to you, because she has conditioned herself to believe that she did right by you. She hasn’t healed.

Heal. Your father may never apologize to you, because he can only see what he’s done right. He hasn’t healed. 

Heal. Your family members may never apologize to you, because toxicity is what they were raised on. They haven’t healed. 

Heal. That “friend” may never apologize to you, because he/she isn’t sorry. He/she hasn’t healed.

If/when they reach their healing, they may seek your forgiveness. Be so healed that it won’t even matter. 

Heal. For you. You owe it to yourself.

A Real Flex

 A real flex is just being yourself in a world where people live for an image.

Esther Rowe: Why Men Don’t Share Pain

 Men don't like sharing their pain with women for the same reason parents don't like sharing their pain with children.

They don't think you can handle it, and they think they'll look lesser in your eyes.

And the thing is, they're usually right about both of those things.

Why would a man share these things with a woman? What is she going to do about it? Save him? Respect him more? No. She'll worry about him, but she'll also begin to lose confidence in him.

That's the thing about being a leader. You don't keep the job if you're not cut out for it.

And when a man opens up like a mother sharing her most intimate anxieties with her child, there's a sense of regret and shame with having burdened a weaker soul with horrors not meant for them. There's a type of disgust with one's self for failing to contain the suffering.

And of course the very best of women, like a child, would most earnestly want to help. They would. They hate the idea you suffer alone, and would love to help you feel better. It's not that they don't care. They do. It's just that this pain isn't meant for them.

Even when men are hurting, they're putting you first, protecting you, shielding you from burden.

Remember that next time you say a man isn't in touch with his emotions.

He is. And that's why he does his best not to subject you to his most personal horrors.

If something is up with him, don't ask him what it is. Let him protect you and maintain his dignity. Do sweet little things for him. Be his ignorant comfort. He will appreciate it and be vitalized with the morale he needs to defeat his demons.

Nagging achieves the opposite.