Bills, Bills, Bills

Scenario: I Can't Take It Anymore

We don't ask for a lot of unfortunate circumstances in life, but they happen. We live in a fallen world so there will be unfortunate circumstances that take place. It's said that life is 10% what happens and 90% how you react to it, but this scenario here...I can't. My thought is this: Some people want to rewrite the wedding vows to say: I promise to cherish you for better, as long as you're in good health, and rich. I came up with this scenario because it's one that all married couples are facing, or will face (God forbid). The husband is dead wrong on many levels. It's bad enough his wife had two strokes, but divorce consideration is foul. This is the time she needs him the most. 

Situations like this are why couples need to be careful when they decide to marry because God forbid, they have to deal with something like this. The irony of this scenario is that I remember reading about this very situation online, where a rich man divorces his wife because she got really sick. I don't know the outcome, but I would think he's paying hefty alimony and spousal support. I understand the anger of seeing your spouse incapacitated, so I think this is where a lot of his anger is coming from. He's making $500K annually with bonuses, so I'm sure he can afford top-notch care for his wife. How does he think she feels? She feels ugly, useless because she can't do what she used to, but he has to be strong for himself and her.

Everyone says they got you when times are good, but when hard times come, you find out who's "got you."

I'm doing this & that; Oh really? Prove It.

Who are you trying to impress?

Not everything needs to be posted on social media. Learn the art of keeping them guessing. https://t.co/t4uzJjIoxR

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) October 27, 2018

Step 1: Repentance, Step 2: Forgiveness...

This is how forgiveness SHOULD go

When true repentance occurs, that's when forgiveness should be extended.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) October 27, 2018

Thought For Today

Buying The Hood

From time to time, videos pop up on my FB timeline about how successful blacks leave the hood instead of buying the hood. In order for that to work, you have to rid the hood of the criminal element: gangs, drug dealers, and murderers.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) October 25, 2018

Rae Carruth Prison Release

Rae Carruth released from prison and wants custody of the child he tried to kill; tell me how that makes sense. This is the SAME child that has cerebral palsy because of his actions. The shooter got 40 years, so Rae Carruth should’ve gotten 40 years or the death penalty. I don’t think he should be allowed to see his kid because he didn’t care about the child’s well being when his girlfriend was shot 4 times and died, so why would he care now? Besides, his kids probably don’t and won’t remember him. Rae isn’t truly free because he has to live with causing his child’s disability. I hope the disabled boy can have some sort of independence.

Internet Fame

In the end, no one's going to care how many followers you had on Twitter or how many likes, shares and retweets you had.

If you’re only claim to fame is social media, you need to re-evaluate your life.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) October 21, 2018

Bible Study

One day I was doing some Biblical research and this is what I came upon. Then...who knew that Hurricane Michael would share the same name as one of the Archangels?

8 Biblical Facts About Archangel Michael | Who is the Archangel Michael? | - Beliefnet https://t.co/ox1DcYkoWT

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) October 10, 2018

Thursday Real Talk

Fake Love

It's real funny how much love you have for someone after they die, but didn't bother showing them love while they were alive.

Tuesday Encouragement

Shout out to Janea King for this powerful message:

Word For The Day

Pulled this out of the vault, thanks for the encouragement Tanya Ware. Even though you're wild at times, you're alright with me.

Question Of The Day

I think with marriage, you and another person are choosing to become one, to bear one another's burdens, love each other unconditionally, all that other stuff. When kids come on the scene, that's more of a commitment that's required of the parents because they need to be sure they can financially take care of the child for an 18-year minimum. 

Thought For Today

The Side Eye

Women SAY they want a man that's in touch with his emotional side, but deep down they're attracted to strength in a man. They want a man they can look to for strength even when he has reason to break down.

A man that gets emotional to his woman loses her respect.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) October 7, 2018

Betrayal

Credit goes to LaTonya for this post. Folks better watch those close to them; people are good pretenders.

Take Care Of Me

I'm a big believer in doing for self. There's nothing like being able to do your own laundry, cook your own meals, etc. This post sums up my feelings towards men who say they want a woman to take care of them. I guess many of them got their wish since some women take care of their man with no problem. The only man a woman should take care of is her husband, period (and vice versa). Women taking care of men who they aren't married to is not a good look; it never was & never will be.

History Of Tithing

Most believers aren't educated on tithing, they do it because God commands them to (which is true). It's important to research the history behind various activities of the Christian faith.

I'll Take The Anointing, Not The Persecution

Throughout Jesus time on earth, he had a powerful anointing which came with a lot of persecution. Believers can't get God's anointing without persecution.

Attention vs. Intention

When Steve Harvey said this on his morning radio show, it got me thinking about the intent behind people giving you attention. Even if people give you good attention, you should still question the intent behind it because some folks have ulterior motives.

Thought For Today

Not much has changed.

10/2 Strawberry Letter: I Can Do Bad By Myself

My response:

I also want to add that she kept making children with this dude, knowing he wasn't trying to better himself, so who's really at fault here?

Blessed To Be A Blessing

After listening to this interview, one time for Kevin Hart for not only making it, but giving opportunities to others so they can shine too. I've got a new level of respect for him after this interview. As far as Tiffany Haddish goes, anyone who goes from rags to riches is good with me. Someone made a valid point when they said Kevin is where Katt Williams could've been and they're right. Katt Williams is one of the most talented comedians in comedy, but he let drugs destroy his talent. I hope Katt Williams can get clean (if he hasn't already) so he can return to being the best of the best in stand-up.

Kevin Hart And Tiffany Haddish Address Katt Williams, Talk Night School ... https://t.co/9snhv9n4FD via @YouTube

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) September 29, 2018