Wednesday Measage: Be Careful How You Treat God’s People

 We're living in times where reaping what you sow is coming faster than ever. You better be careful of how you treat God's people!!

Tuesday Thoughts

Daily Thoughts:

1. 🛑 saying you stand on business when you don’t. I swear…people run sayings into the ground. People that truly stand on business, it shows. 

2. According to some women, everything men do is “sassy”, from being self-sufficient to expressing himself. What’s manly is a woman referring to herself as Alpha. A man has the right to express himself as he sees fit, as long as he’s not a threat to himself or others. 

Fred Jones: Refrain

 ⚠️ Refrain from Announcing GOOD NEWS 📢 prematurely. As it may attract demonic surveillance which brings about delay and possibly destruction! 

📚 Learn to Keep things PRIVATE 🤫 until you know they’re PERMANENT, and even after that know you’re not obligated to share your business with anybody!

This is a word. Even if you know some people are genuinely happy for your success, still…your success will speak for itself. I’m very careful who I share my victories with. Some people may think you have something to hide,  but you’re protecting your anointing, blessing, etc. because everyone isn’t solid.

When Being Transparent Is Too Much

 Repost from Primrose Lily Smith (Facebook)

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When  Being Transparent Is Too Much!

Transparency is defined as the quality of being easily seen through or open and honest.  We all want people who are transparent with us!   What happens when transparency is too much?   

When transparency is too much, you can attract people who are with you but not for you!   I’ve come to realize that I’m too transparent.  I share good deals, sales, discounts, hurts, pain, victories and defeats.   I share goals, dreams, failures and sometimes successes. I share myself, my money, my time and my talents.   

I once was blind but now I see…everyone with me isn’t for me.  Most around me do not share to the degree that I do!   They share just enough to give the illusion of friendship.   

Time has revealed that people can be on your team and not want you to win.  Those types are would be assassins.  I refer to them as would be assassins because no weapon will or shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).   Don’t be like me and give them the weapon(s).   

Being too transparent has led me to garnering superficial relationships (friendships).   While I look at you as a trusted source, you look at me as a gossip!  While I look at you as a confidant, you are a bone collector!   

“Honesty and transparency can make you vulnerable, be honest and transparent anyway”-Mother Teresa.   I love my ability to be vulnerable.  This won’t change; however, I will change those individuals with whom I have been vulnerable, honest and transparent.  

Since my transparency has contributed to many superficial friendships, I must be as wise (shrewd, clever) as a serpent, but harmless as a dove (Matthew 10:16).

Great post from this young lady. She broke it down as to why one should be cautious about who they’re transparent with. Some people are so foul that they’ll use your transparency against you. I’m transparent with the right people; everyone else will get bits & pieces until they prove themselves worthy.

Tera Carissa Hodges: Great Pain Equals Great Blessing

 Your greatest pain will birth out your greatest promise!

KEEP trusting GOD!

Tuesday Word

People don’t defend what’s right anymore, they defend who they like ⚠️

I said it 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Monday Message: Forgive, But Cut Off

 It’s ok to forgive people and still cut them off🫶🏾✌🏾…. I do it all the time 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s called balance and keeping your peace ☮️

3 Things By Esther Rowe

 3 things that don't bother me: 

How they feel about me!🤷🏽‍♀

What they say about me & Why they don't like me!! So Next💅🏽

Reading this puts life in perspective. If we all adopt this attitude, so many of us wouldn’t be worried about why someone dislikes us. For me…I learned early on that not everyone will like me, and I’m fine with that because I know I haven’t given them a reason, so I move on. Life doesn’t stop because someone dislikes you.

Thursday Message

 Detachment getting real easy for me nowadays. I ain't got time to play with nobody.

Tera Carissa Hodges: Why Do Mature People Mind Their Business?

 You know why mature people mind their business? 

Because they understand their life is the only one they can control.

When you get done interfering in somebody else’s life, has your investment portfolio increased? 

Is your marriage better? 

Has your credit score increased? 

Have you pleased God?

That’s why messy people are miserable. 

They’ve got nothing to show for all the time they’ve wasted. 

They’re still underemployed. An emergency would wiped them out financially. Their diet is still not where their doctor would want it to be. They still need to hit the gym. Their dentist hasn’t seen them all year. 

The list goes on!

This is why the blessed should not beef with the miserable, no matter what they try to do or say to provoke you. 

Because when they get done starting a fight, a rumor, gossip, their harvest of misery is already waiting on them to return. 

Thanks to focusing on you and not building their own life, they’ve got nowhere else to go...

Tera Carissa Hodges: Confidentiality Is Key

This post by Tera Hodges is worthy of repost:

Everything you own should not be in your name. 

You can ask your university (post undergrad universities) to shield your information (degrees obtained) unless they have written consent from YOU with identification. 

There’s a reason a #confidentialmarriagelicense is an option.

A skilled family attorney can guide you on how to shield your children’s sensitive information: birth, names, parent, etc.

The people you are the closest with should never be active on your social media. 

When you realize someone close to you is faltering, don’t cut them off immediately. Feed them what you want them to repeat. It’s not your fault they’re disloyal. Use their disloyalty for your good. The fault is on them because loyalty would of kept their mouth shut. 

Don’t advertise where you work. 

When people ask questions, normalize your most immediate response being: why do you want to know. Then, for every reason they give, ask another question pertaining to why. 

Your life is your business and you have options! 

Once again, the goal is not for PEOPLE to be right about you but for LIFE to go right for you. 

Let them wonder how and why you’re so successful. 

It’s a beautiful thing to see your enemy shooting arrows they mean for you but they don’t come anywhere near you. 

That’s why I don’t post too much personal business on social media because anything you say can & will be used against you. Some people on your page are there to be spies, so they can have something to bring back to so & so. I don’t even add colleagues as friends on my social media for that reason.

Jesus Didn’t Charge For Ministry

 If every word from “The Lord” you give has a $ amount attached, you are not a Prophet, you are a fundraiser. Stop lying! Humble yourself! Have integrity and tell the people The Truth!!! You really need help with your rent, child support, car note, etc. Jesus didn’t charge when people came for healing & teaching.

Discernment Is Nothing To Play With

If you pray for discernment, you better be ready for what comes with it. Read this post by Glory Brown Inspiration Coach

Everybody thinks having discernment is so cute and fun to have. But it doesn’t always feel that good when you hug people that you genuinely like and feel that they’re not even for you. Or when people congratulate you on your “higher levels” & say how proud of you they are but you literally feel that they don’t mean a word of it. You FEEL the envy. Discipline and wisdom then has to kick in and makes you say “Thank you” with a smile. 

Discernment isn’t always fun to have and you MUST know how to govern YOURSELF with the enlightenment. You can’t get mad. You can’t always call it out. You simply have to accept it for what it is and not be consumed by it. 

To the one being consumed by the enlightenment of discernment, I pray that God gives you peace as a companion to your gift! I feel you! I understand!

Monday Word

Even when you’re taught wrong, you’re taught right! 

Thursday Message

 Not everyone is a friend. There are associates, and there are friends. Know the difference… act accordingly.

Esther Rowe: Focus On Your Assignment

Please focus on your assignment, those speaking against you don't matter and those who matter Don’t Talk, they are too focused on their own assignment. 

Throwback Monday: Enjoy Life Solo

 I know how to enjoy life solo. Done it so long that I'm not fazed when someone doesn't want to go out with me. You have to learn how to have fun by yourself.

The Law Of Reciprocity

 Never forget, this world is round.

That means…

What goes around, comes around. 

You reap what you sow. 

And a harvest is always greater than its seed.

That means, what you put out, will come back around greater.

Thursday Real Talk: Dislike From Demons

 Credit to Glory Brown Inspiration Coach

Some people will never like you because your spirit disturbs their demons. The Lord will always protect you from those who weren't created to walk with you in purpose. Do not spend your emotional wealth nor energy trying to find a reason for their perceived rejection of you. Understand that God is intentional in His protection of your heart, destiny and salvation. Your journey is too important to worry about those who aren't for you. Thank God for revelation, and move on.

This is a word!🙏 Good! I don’t want demons around me. I thank God for removing those who aren’t for me. I hate demons with everything in me.

Seeing People As They Are

 I used to see good in others until I started seeing them for what they are! If you’re foul, I’ll see you that way. If you’re solid, I see you as that, and so on

Girl X-Chicago

 Girl X is a name given to a young girl who was savagely raped, beaten, forced to drink rat poison & left for dead in Chicago’s notorious Cabrini-Green projects (which are now gone). This crime rocked Chicago because the scumbag tried to pin the attack on the Gangster Disciples, a legendary Chicago street organization. Even they were furious at the attack because leaders ordered members to find & kill the attacker. I don’t condone gangs, but even they have enough heart not to hurt children. Back then, old gangsters had a code that members could NOT hurt women, children or old people. From what I read, the young lady is doing well even though she’s permanently disabled. I hope she can make a full recovery. What’s worse is she got almost no coverage. Because she was an inner-city child who was victimized, the media didn’t bother covering her story outside Chicago.

Plotting

Someone out there plotting on you right now for petty, ignorant reasons!  What they fail to realize is that the same traps they attempt to set for you, will be the same traps they stumble in.  Be at peace and rest knowing that their plots can’t destroy you!  #coveredbyGod

If some people spent more time working on themselves instead of plotting on others, they would be better off.

Thursday Real Talk

 If someone shows you they don’t rock with you, 🛑 double checking! It takes one time for someone to show me they don’t like me (vice versa), and I move around.

Tera Carissa Hodges: You’re Not Obligated

 You’re not obligated to restore people who did you wrong to get somewhere and now that they’re where they want to be, they want peace.

You’re not obligated to restore people who bad mouthed you when they believed you were doing better than them and now that they’ve improved their circumstances and feel closer to your level, they want to reconnect.

You’re not obligated to restore anyone. 

#Forgiveness doesn’t mean restoration.

Tuesday Gospel

When your enemies are planning how to harm you, God is also planning how to stop them. 

Exposure

 Repost (Glory Brown Inspirational Coach)

We (myself included) need to heed this word:

GOD is exposing who you should remove ties with. #PayAttention 🗣

Everyone that comes with you, can’t go with you.

God’s Getting Ready To Blow Your Mind

 Repost from Glory Brown Inspiration Coach

The Enemy Wants You To Lose Your Mind, But God’s Getting Ready To Blow Your Mind.

Self Check Thursday

Plenty of times we ask God to bless us in certain areas of our life! How are you preparing yourself for the shift?!?! 

God is already on go! 

James 2:26

#selfcheckformyself 

Wednesday Message

 I don’t care how much scripture you quote…

How do you treat people?! 

#message

Today’s Message

 I read a post asking if it's ok for men to cry, and as usual, it's women who see nothing wrong with a man crying. For me, if a man sheds tears because he's thankful for what God has done in his life, I can respect that. A man crying for any reason outside the loss of a loved one, I can't respect it. You have men crying over their woman cheating on them, and in my mind I'm😒because it's not that serious. She cheated, big deal. She showed you she wasn't about nothing, time to move on.

Stay Away

Stay away from people who do you wrong & blame you for them doing you wrong.

Real Talk Kim: Stop People Pleasing

I follow a minister who goes by the name Real Talk Kim, and she posted this:

Here's a reminder for all of the people pleasers out there: Jesus was literally perfect and people still hated him. Quit putting your worth in what others think about you instead of what God thinks about you.

My response: Preach, Teach & Proceed! I’m not trying to please anyone except Christ.🤷🏾‍♂️No matter how good I am, some people will never be pleased, so I’m done.

Throwback Confession

 #Confession 

I’m pro-life, but I understand why some women choose to get an abortion. Like it or not, a woman shouldn’t be criticized for aborting her baby if the child was conceived through rape, or the child may be born disabled. Let’s keep it real: Raising special needs children is not easy. You have to be built Ford tough for that.

Let’s not talk about rape. Some folks have the nerve to say a woman should keep a child that was born through rape? Miss me with that. It’s usually Christians who like to say “God can take what’s meant for evil and use it for good” When Christians tell a woman “God can take what’s meant for evil and use it for good”, they’re discounting her feelings. They don’t care what she’s going through or how she’s feeling, which is a bad look on Christianity.😒

Nikki Brooks: I’m Tired Of This Church

 The lack of Emotional Intelligence that is consistently displayed - especially in the name of Christ - is just downright embarrassing.

The way we promote the absence of common sense and call it “the anointing” or “truth in love” is just downright ANNOYING.

Churchfolk have run an entire generation out the doors and have the nerve to blame it on them being rebellious.

The church’s collective REFUSAL to address culture issues and promote change is a wicked form of stubbornness.  And this flossing over feelings and promoting abuse and oppression with prayer is EPIDEMIC and shows up in every area from marriage to education to family matters to civil matters.

How do we Specialize in correcting others but allergic to feedback....How do we consistently point out eye specks while doing nothing about the 2*4’s in our heads.... Just POWERLESS. 

#TiredOfThisChurch

Today’s Message

 You cannot stand on business without taking accountability!

What Does Peace Require?

 Sometimes, peace requires you to be quiet even if you're right!

If…

 If it’s not:

Making Me Happy

Better

Bringing Joy & Peace

I don’t want it…😎

Heal: Esther Rowe (Facebook)

 This puts healing into perspective. Healing is for us, not the offender(s).

Heal. Your mom may never apologize to you, because she has conditioned herself to believe that she did right by you. She hasn’t healed.

Heal. Your father may never apologize to you, because he can only see what he’s done right. He hasn’t healed. 

Heal. Your family members may never apologize to you, because toxicity is what they were raised on. They haven’t healed. 

Heal. That “friend” may never apologize to you, because he/she isn’t sorry. He/she hasn’t healed.

If/when they reach their healing, they may seek your forgiveness. Be so healed that it won’t even matter. 

Heal. For you. You owe it to yourself.

A Real Flex

 A real flex is just being yourself in a world where people live for an image.

Esther Rowe: Why Men Don’t Share Pain

 Men don't like sharing their pain with women for the same reason parents don't like sharing their pain with children.

They don't think you can handle it, and they think they'll look lesser in your eyes.

And the thing is, they're usually right about both of those things.

Why would a man share these things with a woman? What is she going to do about it? Save him? Respect him more? No. She'll worry about him, but she'll also begin to lose confidence in him.

That's the thing about being a leader. You don't keep the job if you're not cut out for it.

And when a man opens up like a mother sharing her most intimate anxieties with her child, there's a sense of regret and shame with having burdened a weaker soul with horrors not meant for them. There's a type of disgust with one's self for failing to contain the suffering.

And of course the very best of women, like a child, would most earnestly want to help. They would. They hate the idea you suffer alone, and would love to help you feel better. It's not that they don't care. They do. It's just that this pain isn't meant for them.

Even when men are hurting, they're putting you first, protecting you, shielding you from burden.

Remember that next time you say a man isn't in touch with his emotions.

He is. And that's why he does his best not to subject you to his most personal horrors.

If something is up with him, don't ask him what it is. Let him protect you and maintain his dignity. Do sweet little things for him. Be his ignorant comfort. He will appreciate it and be vitalized with the morale he needs to defeat his demons.

Nagging achieves the opposite.

Throwback Thursday: Truth Is…

 #TheTruthIs that women expect men to love them unconditionally, junk included. Let a man request the same, and it's a problem.

Daniel 12:3 NLT

”Those who are wise will shine as bright as the sky, and those who lead many to righteousness will shine like the stars forever.“

‭‭Daniel‬ ‭12‬:‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Turning The Page

 If we’re not on the same page, I’m turning. As I get older, I turn pages quick!

The End Times Are Coming

The Bible says the first time God destroyed the earth by water and he promised to never do that again. (The real meaning of the Rainbow) he went on to say I will destroy it by fire the second time. I won’t pretend I understand all of the book of Revelation, but I do understand I wish to spend eternity in Heaven. I have been hearing about the second coming of Christ and the events unfolding since I was a child. The "Mark of the Beast" Artificial Intelligence,  microchips, no cash/digital currency, total government dependency/control. When we are raising a family, working long hours, some two jobs, lots of things go unnoticed or just get ignored. No one can comprehend how bad it will be, but we see it happening, bit by bit, on the news everyday. While the devil is preparing people for the Anti Christ, God is preparing people for the Rapture. I don’t know when the rapture will take place but I know that I’m not planning to be left behind when that trumpet sounds! I also believe right now that God is giving us a chance to turn our lives around and live according to His will. We need to get the Gospel message out! Until the good Lord calls me away from this world to go home, I want to make it clear that I believe in Jesus Christ as the one and only true Lord and Savior. Despite the fact that I am human, and I fail a lot, I believe that Jesus is the Son of God Amen. 🤞🏾🩸🤞🏾 

Sunday Encouragement: Who Are They?

 I’m not sure who thought they had the power to crumble you. But, now they’re embarrassed. They did all that talking and you are still walking!

The Reality Of Relationships

Repost (Fred Jones)

 📌 Some people are SINGLE because people aren't dating anymore. They are just talking, catching feelings, sleeping together & ending up in situationships 🤦🏾‍♂️ This generation is trying to put an end to healthy marriage. If You want people. PROVE it with ACTIONS not just words❗️

With that said 🗣️Unless a man sits you down and tells you straight up “I am ready to be in a committed relationship” or “I want you to be my woman.” And you agree, then don’t assume that you are❗️It doesn’t matter what he does for you, how much you’ve given him, or what y’all do together❗️You’re worth much more then to be dragged around! Brother if You don't plan to marry 💍 HER get out of HER HUSBAND'S way❗️

This is a whole word. Seeing how people waste time with the wrong person makes me blessed to be single…If I’m checking for a woman, I’m only interested in HER. I will not date around because that’s corny.

Monica Regina Jones: Let Go!

 Repost from Sis. Monica

It's 2024,. Let go of slander, intimidation, provocation, bullying,  recruiting others to dislike who you don't like, and throwing dirt on someone's name. Just leave them alone. It's really that simple. Happy Thursday.  ☀

Tamika Latoya Henry: 🛑 The Pity Party

 The pity parties...stop them and push! You can do it!

Hanging With Lots Of People

 When you hang around a bunch of people: You have one person who don’t like you, one person who telling all of your business, one person trying to watch your every move, one person trying to go behind your back and talk to the person you’re with, one person watching your finances, & Sometimes you have one person trying to bury you....But when you keep your mouth shut & don’t talk so much, people won’t know how to attack you! And remember when you hang by yourself, self can’t tell on self. #Facts ‼️

Work Your Purpose: Tera Carissa Hodges

 The most strategic thing you can do is WORK your purpose! When you are working your purpose, GOD will defend you against anything that comes against it.

How To 🛑 Conflict

 Most conflict comes from not checking people the first time they play with you!

Childless Men=Suspect?

 People will say anything on social media, even if it makes them look stupid. Crazy huh? I read this post from a young lady that said “Men over 30 without kids are SUS (suspect)” Really? Let’s get this right: A man that’s disciplined is suspect? Have we become normalized to OOW births? Her comment sounds like it. If being disciplined makes me suspect, I’ll be suspect with pride!

Wednesday Wisdom

 Disrespect will close doors that apologies can’t reopen. Be careful how you treat those you think you don’t & won’t need.

Shots Fired

 I don’t want to hear nothing from blacks about white people doing us wrong, because we do each other dirty way worse!🤦🏾Other races have surpassed blacks because for the most part, they can work together. They may not be besties, but if there’s a common goal…conflict is put aside for the good of everyone.

Standing On Business, Playing Both Sides

 Y’all standing on business, but you’re playing both sides. Cut the 💩.😏I see the foolishness people are on, and it confirms my decision to stay solo.

Valentine’s Day: At War For 2 Weeks, Then Make Up on 2/14

 Shout out to all couples mad at each other for 2 weeks, only to be lovey-dovey on February 14. Comedy😂🤦🏾It’s ridiculous that some couples can be mad for 2 weeks leading up to Valentine’s Day. Y’all can have that dysfunctional nonsense; I’ll keep my peace of mind knowing I don’t have to spend hundreds for a date.👎If that’s love, I don’t want it. I’m good.

Respecting Real vs. Popular

 Repost from Shanta Collins

y’all don’t respect real, y’all respect popular & that’s where we so different at 🫰🏿

Throwback Thursday: What Do YOU Know?

 When the elders use to say “What you know about this music? This is for grown folks.” They were introducing the younger generation to good music.😎

Stay In Your Lane

When you stay in your lane and observe, you learn a lot about yourself.

If you have a successful ministry, but your family is falling apart, you're not prospering like you think. 

Broke: Paying Bills vs. Reckless Spending

Being broke from paying bills is NOT the same as broke from poor money management! 

Be Careful

 Be careful how you handle people who you think don't matter! - Bishop S. Y. Younger

Monday Gospel

 Life will show you who’s real & who isn’t!

Be grateful to God even if you have everything.

Older Generation vs. Young Generation-Foolishness

 If unconditional love & forgiveness isn't staying with someone through 2 health crises, I don't know what is. Truth be told, I see why the younger generation is less likely to tolerate foolishness from a significant other because unlike the older generation, younger people have more options whereas back in our parents/grandparents time, there weren't a lot of resources for an abused spouse to leave. A man could take care of his family & still feel entitled to dog his wife.😒. My eyes were opened to a lot in my 40 years of life.

Wisdom For Men (People)

 YOU ARE STRONGER THAN THAT

People may not like you for whatever reason but you can't let what they may say bring you down or depress you or put you in a bad mood. You are stronger than that. Understand you won't be able to please everyone in life. You must keep your head up and your eyes to the skies. You are strong and only getting stronger by the minute.

God Answered Quick, I’m 😳

We should never be amazed when God answers our prayers quickly if we pray in faith. 

Wednesday Gospel

I think it’s important to understand that no matter how good you are to someone, they won’t reciprocate. Don’t stop being good, just be careful who you’re good to because as stated before, not everyone will like you. Truth be told, they have issues they need to deal with.

Monday Thought

Morning Thought: I hate how some women criticize other ladies for having majority guy friends. If a woman gets along better with guys than she does other women, it’s not her fault…it’s the other womens’ fault. #ISaidWhatISaid 

Saturday Message

 Dudes who pull guns aren’t G’s, they’re cowards who can’t fight!

Friday Real Talk

 I’m glad I don’t need to hang with everybody in order to be relevant!

Are You Oxygen?

 People really think you can't live without them; is your name Oxygen?

Terrance L Barber: Pray On Purpose

This was too good NOT to share: Pray on purpose. You seriously can’t afford not to! #Message

Tuesday Message: Stop Glorifying Suffering

 Suffering doesn't make anyone stronger, it makes them hurt. Preventing suffering is a virtue.

Rumors Have No End

 Rumors have no end, and go from mouth to mouth like rivers of living water.🤦🏾

Sunday Message

 I’m paraphrasing what FB friend Michael ShoNuffGlenn said:

Church meetings are about God’s business, not foolishness.

Looking Good, Not A Good Look

 Read this again if necessary: Some people look good, but they aren't a good look.

Boundaries

 What’s good about boundaries? They weed out the wrong people in your life. Notice how you start enforcing boundaries, and people drop like flies. This is what you want because those who aren’t good for you, have no business in your life.

Dream Sharing=Hate

 If you’re familiar with the Bible, then you’ve learned about Joseph being sold into slavery by his brothers. His first mistake was telling his brothers his dream because they were upset that God didn’t give them the dream. Moral of the story: You can’t share your dream with everyone because of the hate that comes with it. If you have a dream, execute it in silence. Your result will speak for itself.

Treatment From Christians & The World

 Repost (Tywanna Swain)

It amazes me that the world will treat you better than the saints. We as godly people have got to be better role models. We walk around mad, and mistreating people, talking to people any kind of way, don’t want to speak to one another, back biting one another, sowing discord, and hating people for No reason and think we are going to make it to heaven. Well if you could make it to heaven with all those ungodly attributes, THE DEVIL would have never gotten kicked out of heaven. You better do a SPIRITUAL EXAMINATION because all your godly serving is going to be in vain, if JESUS come back and you haven’t gotten it together… I see people treating people a certain kind of way and I’m experiencing these acts, but what I do is continue to show them LOVE regardless to how they act or treat me. Because when my LORD AND SAVIOR return, I want to hear him say well done MY GOOD AND FAITHFUL SERVANT. You took a lot but you passed your test. LOVE WILL WIN EVERY SINGLE TIME. Thank You Jesus For Keeping Me. This Is Something To Meditate On

😭💃🏾😭💃🏾😭💃🏾😭💃🏾😭💃🏾😭💃🏾

She’s not lying. It’s sad, but true. We wonder why unsaved people aren’t coming to Christ, because they see no difference in how believers treat each other & those in the world.

Christians Vs. Abortion: All Or Nothing

Christians can be one-sided in abortion. They scream pro-life, but do any of them consider why some women have abortions, such as: The risk of having a severely disabled child, or what about the woman who was sexually assaulted? Is it right to pressure her into keeping a baby under terrible circumstances? Christians, or people in general aren’t ready for that conversation. 

Question Of The Day: What Kind Of Math

Repost:

Single man pays all his bills. He won't let you live with him for free so now he's broke. What kinda math is that???

The logic of some women is crazy. So…a man is supposed to let some woman live with him for free? Aht aht..couldn’t be me. The only exception is if she’s my wife. Otherwise, if someone’s letting you live with them, you better kick in on the rent/mortgage, help keep the house clean…something.

Message To Christians: Daniel Fast

Christians: Those of you doing the Daniel Fast: If you’re fasting & gossiping, cussing somebody out, being messy or fake, EAT! Just throw the Daniel Fast away. 🤦🏿‍♂️ 

Strong Statement

 Throwback Message: Rae Carruth can burn in hell. The child he attempted to kill 18 years ago is living with cerebral palsy because of him. Yet he’s out of jail, and wants custody of his son. 🤦🏾‍♂️

A year later, I feel the same way. The young man is doing fine now, but Chance (the special needs young man); his life was forever changed by his scumbag father’s mistake. To me, what Rae Carruth did is unforgivable. How do you rebound from a heinous offense? To me, you can’t.

Fake Love: Shanta Collins

 Repost from Shanta Collins

If anything was to ever happen to me, I'm praying it don't. If you ain't f*%# with me when I was alive, please don't worry about me when I'm dead. And I mean this in the most humble way.

She’s not lying. People want to show you fake love at your funeral, but didn’t give you the time of day when you were alive. Miss me with that.

Thursday Message: Your Downfall Is Your Fault!

 People who do others wrong will make themselves the victim, when their downfall was their fault!

Woodville=The Hood?😂🤦🏾

 Someone said Woodville in Tallahassee was the hood.🤣🤦🏾Nah…Woodville will never be hood because we don’t want ghetto riff raff out here. Keep the gunplay in Tallahassee.

Daily Thoughts

 Morning Thoughts: Divide & Thrive needs to happen in the black community expeditiously. The blacks who are about building on one side, the reprobate blacks (and their supporters) on the other.

New Year, Same Me: Just trying to get better in all areas of my life.

When my late father taught me how to drive: He didn’t take it easy on me with a small car, he had me drive his old ‘77 Mercury Grand Marquis. His logic: If you can drive a big car, you can drive any car. Pops was spot on.😎

The best way to honor a fallen loved one is living out their wisdom & life lessons.

Tamika Latoya Henry: Maturity

Credit goes to the above person for this statement. There’s too many overgrown children in adult bodies. Example: Stuck on stupid. Being stuck on stupid can take many forms such as: Lack of accountability, being childish/petty to name a few. Who raised some of these fools?🤔 I’m understanding more why I stay to myself, because it seems like people are too shady and childish for me.

Being a certain age doesn't make you mature! At some point you would think so but ummm..NO! 

#growup

#childishmindset

Sunday Message: Discernment

 Discernment is one of the most overused cliches in Christianity, because those who claim to have it, DON’T. The real proof of discernment is you don’t talk too much!

Sensitive Because Of Accountability?🤦🏾

 Some of you are so toxic, you’ll call someone sensitive for calling you out about bad behavior!

To My Fellas

Fellas: If you allow a woman who’s mistreated you to 🛑 you from being a stand-up man, you’re the problem. Choose Better. 

Thursday Message

 If I'm placed in a situation I have no control over, please believe I'm silently working on a plan to take control

Women’s Intuition

 If women’s intuition works so well, why does it fail when it comes to picking their babies’ fathers?🤔Inquiring minds want to know. Sometimes it works, but most times, some women are too deep in their feelings to ignore the 🚩. Some live & learn, others stay stuck.

It’s Ok: Tera Carissa Hodges

 It’s ok to be talked about.

It’s ok to be lied on.

It’s ok to be scandalized.

It’s ok to be plotted against.

It’s ok to be misjudged.

It’s ok to be laughed at.

It’s ok to be ostracized. 

What’s not ok is quitting…

Why?

Because you can be talked about, lied on, scandalized, plotted against, misjudged, laughed at, ostracized and still win.

But, the second you quit, you forfeit your victory.

In their face KEEP GOING!!!

What Should FAMU Football Coach Willie Simmons Do?

 It’s a lot of talk about what FAMU head coach Willie Simmons should do regarding the Duke offer, and I’ll say this: I’m NOT in his inner circle & won’t claim to be. The man is gonna do what he thinks is best for him & his family.