Jun 7, 2013

Prince Charming: By Dahlia (How To Be A Woman)

Ladies, it's okay to have dreams for your Prince Charming. We grow up imagining ourselves as princesses and we hope to find that prince that will whisk us away to a beautiful castle and that we'll live happily ever after! But, unfortunately, life isn't a fairy tale.
As young girls, we're princesses that dream of princes. As women, we're Queens that dream of Kings. Don't give up your dreams, because they can come true. You can find that wonderful, real man, but you must understand what it is to be a wonderful, real woman. You must be on top of your A game, physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. You need to understand that while a college degree, a nice place and a good job are great things, that doesn't put you at the top of the totem pole. Real men want a good woman at their side, one who has her own mind, acts like a lady and submits to him, as well as other great features and aspects. And ladies, you already know that you only submit to the right kind of man.
It's okay to have a dream. But the purpose of a dream is to work on it to make it a reality. If you dream big, do big. Make sure you can be the best woman you can be for yourself, and be on point so that a great man will check for you. Water does indeed seek its own level, so be on your Queen ish so you can find a man on his King ish. Be the best and the best will come to you.
As it was said in "Inception", "You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling."
~Dahlia ♥
 
 
My View: When I started this blog website in January 2012, the intent was to showcase my $.02 on various subjects. I still do that, but I also promote others' work on my blog as well. The Facebook Group How To Be A Woman is a page that I proudly support because the ladies who run it are stand-up; one of which is married. Much of this week's material has come from their page, because it's too good NOT to share. Today's topic is titled Prince Charming. Every woman dreams of finding her Prince Charming; the perfect man she can live happily ever after with. Nothing wrong with that, because a stand-up man seeks a queen he can grow old with. The difference between today's woman seeking Prince Charming, and children's fairy tales is evident: In children's stories, the princess spent time getting herself ready for her Prince. She made sure she had herself together, and she wasn't satisfied until her Prince saw nothing but perfection. Today's woman? Not so much. Some women want to be called queens, but many act NOTHING like one. How can you be called a Prince or Queen, when you don't have the qualities of one? That's nonsense. This part stands out to me: Make sure you can be the best woman you can be for yourself, and be on point so that a great man will check for you. Water does indeed seek its own level, so be on your Queen ish so you can find a man on his King ish. Be the best and the best will come to you. If you want the best, BE the best. A woman has every right to want Prince Charming, but she should make sure she's getting herself together so that when Prince Charming arrives, she will know it. Nobody has a right to expect the best, if they're not the best, or willing to become the best. That goes for men & women.

Wednesday Measage: Be Careful How You Treat God’s People

  We're living in times where reaping what you sow is coming faster than ever. You better be careful of how you treat God's people!!