Relationship Issue: I want to ask for advice, my wife of 18 years has a vicious sex drive, it's been like this our entire marriage, but lately I can't keep up. We have sex 4 times a day during the work week and 10-12 times during the weekend. It gets so bad that my penis gets sore, and dry heaves because my sperm pouch is depleted. I don't know how to approach her about sex toy options because she's very religious, and want to keep things natural. I love her to no end and enjoy our intimacy, but it's starting to get frustrating and very tiresome. Please answer maturely because I ain't no punk, I just want to please my wife sexually, but it's hard to perform this frequently.
ME: What's the problem? His wife has a high sex drive, nothing wrong with that. I can't stand some men who complain about their woman's high sex drive. This tells me that men aren't built like they used to, because there was a time where a man would love a woman with a high sex drive. Someone needs to tell this man "what you won't do, someone will." "I love her to no end, and enjoy our intimacy" I can't tell, because most men would have no problem making their woman tap out. I could never fix myself to complain about my wife's sex drive, because as a husband, I have a responsibility to render affection that's due her (that's Biblical), and vice versa. The whole toy idea is ridiculous, and if I was her, I'd tell him to shove his suggestion. The bottom line is that he needs to man up, and give his wife what she wants. If he can't keep up, he better start working out so he can increase his energy level. Studies show that regular exercise and good diet does wonders for stamina. She may be using sex to fill other voids emotionally, psychologically, financially, etc. Sounds like she's bored and needs a job and some hobbies. Loving sex is good, but what else does this couple do? I think she is a nympho and because of her religious convictions, she sexes him so much to keep from going elsewhere. But she needs to get a grip though. Tone it down and let him recover. Glad after 18 years they still on like that, but dude is feeling like he's ready to retire!
