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Sounds about right to me.

Change For Me, I'm Not Changing For You

Status Update: By Jerome Iownamerica Bolden

*Women want to change you, but dont want to change for you. They'll tell you to take them as they are...LOL!

 

Isn't that how it usually goes? Some women are good for that, they try to mold men into their ideal mate, but if he flips the script, it's a problem. It seems that some women have no hang-ups about trying to change a man, but when he tries to change her, all hell breaks loose. If you expect someone to change, be willing to change. It goes both ways. I don't mean changing the core of who you are in order to be accepted, I mean if you have someone that's dedicated to your growth & development, why wouldn't you change? That's what helps you become a better person. You can't change anyone, they must make that decision. Going further, why bother changing someone? If you don't like their personality & character, exit stage left. You're probably doing them a favor, because they can look for someone who closely fits what they're looking for. This goes for MEN & WOMEN.