A man will not go hard for a woman who takes him for granted, just like a woman won't go hard for a man who takes her for granted.
— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) December 16, 2014
A man will not go hard for a woman who takes him for granted, just like a woman won't go hard for a man who takes her for granted. Why should spouses continue showing love to unappreciative mates? Sounds stupid if you ask me because here you are doing this & that to please your spouse, and they take you for granted. It's like they EXPECT you to bless them regularly. People do nice things because they want to, not out of obligation. Some (wo)men don't have to go out of their way for their spouse, but because of their love for him/her, they go as hard for them. I hate to see mates take each other for granted. It's the selfishness that turns me off from relationships as a whole. Honestly, I see why some people become selfish because they're tired of giving to unappreciative people. After being unappreciated for so long, two things happen: 1. You become selfish or 2. You limit your giving. If couples choose to continue doing for each other even if one is being selfish, that's their issue, but it won't be mine because I'm quick to say no, even if the request is reasonable. I don't mind doing for my lady, but she better appreciate it. Just as fast as I bless her, I can easily stop all that. Spouses need to learn how to appreciate each other, because at some point people get tired of being taken advantage of. Once someone reaches their breaking point, nothing you can say will change their mind.
