Monday Message

When your life starts coming together, keep your mouth shut. 

Monica Regina Jones: Vet People Before Letting Them In

 There's two things that I've learned that is essential to having healthier relationships with ppl. The first one is to vet them. The second is to be selective with who you allow to  gain access to you. 

Many times, we often make the mistake of thinking that just because they are in close proximity to us, (work, church, social groups) in our age group,  have similar interests  and etc, that it automatically means they get a pass and we're supposed to just bond with them or give them a space in our lives. It's a no. 

We must vet people before we label them anything significant.  We can't lean on first impressions, clicking, or "vibes". We may have to allow things to unfold within 6 months to a year so that it's not a superficial connection. Meaning, don't be so quick to tell them your life story unless Holy Spirit nudges  you to do so.  Dont be quick to volunteer your time or overextend yourself. Don't be quick to show them your wounds or vulnerabilities. 

It's during this time that mental notes should be taken. Learn to listen to what' they're saying without remixing it to what you think they meant. Exude patience. Pray and ask God to reveal their character, heart, and motives to you.  Observe, but don't be suspicious.

During this time, check and  make sure you're not comparing them to anyone from your past. That you aren't seeing them through unhealed  lenses. Also, it's not always accurate to go by what someone else has told you about them.  Make the decision to think for yourself and get to know them for yourself.

Sometimes others will lie because they personally don't like them, or they know nothing about them and speak from assumptions with no receipts.  Either way, be open to new ppl, but use wisdom before you allow how they "seem" to cause you to gravitate to them or make room for them in your life.

Today’s Message

 When breaking generational curses, don't expect support from those who passed it on.

Men, 🛑 Letting Women Trick You Out Your Anointing

 Samson & Delilah is a good example of how some men will let a woman trick them out of their anointing. He was too focused on Delilah’s beauty, not realizing she was setting him up. If God places a man in an influential position, he can’t let any woman check for him. Women are attracted to powerful men, and because many men have poor discernment, they can’t tell a Delilah from a solid woman. A woman will NEVER be fine enough to trick me out of my influential position, let alone my anointing. If God anoints me (which he has), I’m protecting my anointing by any means necessary.

Sean “Diddy” Combs Drama

 I haven’t spoken at all on Diddy’s drama because I’m waiting for everything to come out, but I’ll say this: The reason why people are close mouthed about Diddy’s drama is because if Diddy goes down, a lot of people go down with him.

Grace Runs Out

People love to play in God’s face until that grace runs out. #RemainHumble 

Fix Yourself Before Fixing Others

 I’m a proud American, but our country has too many issues to police another country. We have no business telling another country how to live when we have our own trouble.🤦🏾

Wednesday Measage: Be Careful How You Treat God’s People

 We're living in times where reaping what you sow is coming faster than ever. You better be careful of how you treat God's people!!