True Or False: If a woman doesn't trust her man when he's given her no reason to doubt him, she's not to be trusted.
Here are the responses to the question I posed on Facebook:
Destiny Bennett-Whiteside Some people are insecure from past experiences or sometimes from watching the ones around them
Richard Hudson I say True and False. Think about it: A woman who suspects her man of doing dirt could be the one doing her own dirt. She doesn't want the heat on her so she does everything to deflect onto him. False, because even the most stand-up men & women are prone to infidelity.
Maurice Wilkerson True with some women not all. some women might be hiding something and is afraid to tell but it depends on what it is.
Richard Hudson That's the thing: Leave your baggage at the terminal before boarding another relationship. Matter of fact, throw the baggage as far as east is from west.
Twanna Gill sometimes you don't even realize you are carrying excess luggage Richard Hudson and then there is some stuff that will simply always be a part of you....
Richard Hudson So she's going to make the next man pay for the sins of the ex? That's bonkers. It happens, but it's bonkers. I feel what everyone is saying though. We all have baggage to some degree.
Twanna Gill yeah, I think we all do to a certain degree. There is a fine line between learning from your past and making someone else pay for it...
Destiny Bennett-Whiteside This applies to men that don't trust their woman for no reason too right ??
April McLemore That was my next question Destiny Bennett-Whiteside.....I learned why he was questioning me when I was traveling for business or if I didn't answer because there was no reception in the mall....lol cause his ass was doing dirt...smh
Anthony Archie I feel since a woman base everything on what a man do, it do make men not trust them especially if they think he can't be trusted and she might not have a reason. Probably her own guilty conscious
Maurice Wilkerson if a woman feels that she cant trust me and i havent given her no reasons then go on are leave. i dont have the time for insecure women .come upfront or dont come at all.
Toni AdvocatingforJustice Whitley False: Trust, just like most things in life, have to be earned. There are going to be various levels of insecurities from both men and women. Just bc she does not trust you does not imply that she is cheating, there are other factors that have to be taken into consideration to make that determination.
Thomas Stafford yea some people might not trust because trust all ready have been broking before you lets face it people get hurt and some time never grow from it
Shai's Genjutsu She has issues then if she's giving him a hard time without a good reason. I wouldn't stay if I was him. No use in jumping through hoops when I'm not trusted anyways. I'd urge her to figure out what's going on with her and heal first before ever attempting another relationship.
