Jul 2, 2013

Lord, Why Can't I Find A Good Man?

 
I don't mean to laugh, but I find this pic hilarious for obvious reasons. Many women pray for a good man, but when God sends one to her, she finds every reason to sabotage a beautiful relationship. Some women are so used to doggish men, they can't handle a stand-up brother who has his stuff together. According to this pic, God gets tired of answering a woman's prayer for a good man, that the caption says it all: "I sent you one. You said he didn't have enough swag. So? Yes, God has unlimited patience, but even he has limits. I feel like this, if a woman wants a good man, be a good woman. No good man wants a bad woman, and vice versa. When you pray for something, be ready for the blessing; however it comes. The problem is, some women have a manual of what they want their man to look like: 6'4, light-skinned like Boris Kodjoe, makes 6-figures, puts up with her foolishness (some women love to throw up scripture to support this argument. "A husband is not to divorce his wife" bla bla), spends money on her, great cook (some women who want their potential mates to go beast mode in the kitchen, typically can't cook, or have no desire to learn how to cook). Ok, that's great you have a manual. God sends you your desired man, but here's the curve ball: He's short, and content with his position in life. He's reached a level of success that's good enough for him. She gives this man the side eye, because she wants to take over the world, and he's content without the fame & fortune. Can she get past her hangup(s) towards him, or not? Time Will Tell. Most women can overlook a few flaws in a man, as long as he has the core values she's looking for: Compatibility, Trust, Respect, Caring, etc.

Wednesday Measage: Be Careful How You Treat God’s People

  We're living in times where reaping what you sow is coming faster than ever. You better be careful of how you treat God's people!!