Feb 7, 2013

Captain Save A Hoe

 
Ok, I'm all for defending a woman when necessary but some of these men take it too far. Some men fight tooth & nail to defend a woman's right to be ratchet. I'm thinking to myself  "Are you serious? You know her conduct is foul and you're co-signing her? I wonder what she's giving you in return for your defense" No man defends a woman's right to be ratchet unless she's giving him something in return, and I think we all know what that is. The thing is, most women aren't attracted to Superhero type men, a lot of them openly admit this. They're playing him for her benefit. That's exactly who these women attract, men who are like themselves, deflective, defensive and attitudinal, they don't want logical/objective and strong men that lead and set agendas. IT UNDERMINES THEM WANTING TO BE IN CONTROL. That's why they fight tooth & nail to maintain their interest. The man taking a stand is an affront to them. But you know what? These women can have the simps. If that's what they want, let's give 'em what they want. All the strong men can go elsewhere where the woman respects his authority as the head and WANTS him to lead. Ladies, you can do no wrong! Whatever issue you have, I promise you, it is NOT your fault. It's on the man! He caused you grave pain and I'm here to save you from accountability, truth, shame and responsibility! *Cue superhero music*
 

The Road Of Least Resistance

 
It's a given there will be SOME resistance in a relationship but how much is too much? According to some women, a man is supposed to love her at her worst, when she's not returning the favor. Nobody has time for that! If one person is doing all the giving and receiving, there's a problem.
I Don't Know Why Some Women Think That A Man Will Put up with any kind of nonsense. The average man operates on a 3 strike rule. The woman gets out of order 3 times before he leaves. I, on the other hand have zero tolerance when it comes to relationships. If I see a woman is about drama upon first encounter, she will be left behind. What do I look like wasting her & my time. No ma'am. My peace of mind is far more valuable than loving a woman at her worst. This isn't like back in the day, where old-school couples understood COMMITTMENT. In today's world, people are quick to toss you over miniscule reasons, and you can't blame them. Everyone's tolerance level is different. Some people have a high and low tolerance for attitude, agression & hostility. Ladies must remember it's the guy who asks the question, NOT YOU! Unless you want to pop the question yourselves; In that case, have at it. Get back to me with a report of how it worked out for you. A man will always travel the road of least resistance. I know for me, this picture is a no-brainer. I'm going with the woman who will play her position and I play mine. I'm about building a legacy and you can't do that with someone that's not on the same page. THAT PART!

Wednesday Measage: Be Careful How You Treat God’s People

  We're living in times where reaping what you sow is coming faster than ever. You better be careful of how you treat God's people!!