A lot of men look at a woman's shape, instead of her character.
— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) December 9, 2014
I know most men look at a woman's looks when getting to know her. Is she cute or average looking? Nothing wrong with that because as much as we don't want to admit it, looks do play a role in someone's attraction to a (wo)man. Personally, I don't place high value on a woman's looks because unlike most men, I look deep within. A woman can be gorgeous, but if her attitude reeks, then that makes her ugly in my eyes. A gorgeous woman is appealing physically, spiritually, and mentally. She's respected by her loved ones, and acquaintances. Given her reputation, if you asked 5 of her closest friends about her character, you would be listening all day because they would rattle off stories of how she has encouraged them in a time of need. Bel Biv Devoe made a song in the 80's called Poison. The concept of that song is you can never trust a shapely woman. She looks good, but looks can be deceiving.
It's hard for me to be empathetic towards men who get jammed up with the wrong woman. Those men focus more on a woman's curves than what's in her heart. How is her character? How does she treat her loved ones in her life? Does she have common sense? Some men are scared to ask their prospective woman the hard questions because they're so worried about what her mouth does, instead of what her heart does.
