Everybody likes peace & quiet. Who has time to do battle when they battle enough outside the home? That's ridiculous. Home should be the ONE place where you can retreat to in order to escape the BS of the streets. If you can't have peace in your own house, something is wrong. A man gets up at 5am to hit the gym for an hour and a half, then he puts in a full day on the job. Once he comes home, here comes his wife hitting him with nonsense he had nothing to do with. Check this, she's had her own battles and she's going to unload on him? That's foul. If she was going to act a fool, she should've taken a few hours to debrief before unloading her attitude on him. NO ONE should be responsible for your bad attitude. If you need time to debrief, do whatever you have to do in order to get your mind right. Pray, scream to the mountaintop, vent to your best friends, whatever you see fit. It speaks volumes about you if a spouse unfairly gives their mate their attitude. Men & women are equally guilty of this.
I stand by my premise that if there's no peace in your home, something is wrong. There are times to confront, and times to let it ride. Personally, I don't have time to come home to a woman with a horrible attitude. I can have the best day, and here comes this witch spewing her poison. I'm liable to put her in her place, and dare her to move. That's the difference between some men and women: Many times, women make mountains out of molehills. What's not important to him, is important to her. With men, they confront when necessary and move on. This is why people need to gauge their prospective mates very carefully. Will I have peace with him or her? If so, we can make something shake. If not, both should go their separate ways. You go to war outside your home, and you bring that mess into your home? That's dumb.com. I refuse to sacrifice my peace of mind to do battle with my spouse. Then again, I won't have that problem because I will stress to my prospective woman that if we're going to get married, you WILL NOT unleash your attitude on me for any reason. If you're having a bad day, take time to debrief and let me know what's on your mind.
Then again, how many women DON'T like to argue? A small percentage. They think it's "healthy".
