This should be a no-brainer as to what kind of man ladies choose. Some women would choose CJ, and then want Brian after she's done wrong. The issue is, men like Brian are quickly snatched off the market by good women so the bitter, lonely women are left to their demise. Think about it, Brian has everything going for him so why wouldn't a woman choose him? Like I said, some women's priorities are royally screwed unless she herself is a hoodrat. If a woman is a hoodrat, of course she would pick a similar man because he's on her level. A hoodrat should never desire a man who has himself together, because they're in two different places. You have Brian, who's done very well for himself, never been in trouble with the law, involved in his church and keeps himself up physically, and you have the street dude CJ. Not all street dudes are bad people, they just made bad choices. Deep down, some street dudes lost their way and need help getting back on track. Brothers like Brian are usually rejected in high school and college, because they're focused on their future. They want to build a future for themselves before they think about a relationship. Bettering themselves takes precedence over finding a woman in school (although people do find mates in higher education). The mindset of a woman in college as opposed to her early 30's is vastly different. She looks at the outside, rather than a man's heart. Looks matter, I get that; but looks fade over time, and then what? You're going to need more to fall back on. Brian graduates with his MBA, and the same woman who rejected him is now checking for him. If Brian is smart, he'll reject her with good reason. She wasn't with him shooting in the gym (working hard to better himself), so she has no right to come along for the success. The woman Brian chooses is someone on his level; someone who he can build a life with, and will bring out the best in him and he in her. So what if his sex game is bad? Sex isn't everything in a relationship, so people need to stop putting sex on a pedestal like it's the be all, end all of a relationship. Besides, a couple's sex life diminishes with age. A couple's sex life sizzles in their 20's & 30's, peaks in their 40's, and then fizzles out as they age. You'll barely get a tiny spark once the couple hits their 60's and up.
