Shout out to one of my cousins for this post
Some believers don't like to serve. So many people in the body of Christ are intimidated instead of using each gift to make the 5 fold ministry. Pastors are in competition for most members. It's not a lot of pastors that are willing to work together. Some pastors want to have the biggest congregation to where they'll undermine each other to get on top. Jesus doesn't care who has the biggest congregation, all he cares about is who's bringing souls into his kingdom. There's also denominational differences. How many believers have visited another church? I'm not saying leave your home church, but at least visit another place of worship to see how other believers worship, and maybe you'll discover that we all serve the same God.
