This was inspired by Greg Cross (a Facebook friend). It was so good I have to share:
Ladies! You pray that you want God to bless you with a God-Fearing Man but yet, you disrespect him by not allowing to lead the household & fight for control.
Ladies! You pray to God to give you a husband & someone you can have a future with, but still chasing after men who has no interest in you and/or you chasing after men who are players, thugs, cheaters, liars, dogs, & etc also along with them mistreating you, they mistreat you & you continue to see them as solid men.
Ladies! You pray for a good man, but still you put a good man on the backburner or in the friend zone because you are afraid of trying something that will benefit your future.
Ladies! You pray for a good man, but you walk around as if you do not need one telling yourself you do not need a man, & that you can do bad all by yourself. I got my own what do I NEED A MAN FOR?
Ladies! You pray for a good man but yet & still you do not believe in Black Fathers, nor will you allow yourself to let the Black Fathers be parents because you feel that you are the "Mother & Father".
Ladies! You pray for a good man but somehow you always have something negative to say about good men or men in general. Telling people that "Men ain't shit, It's some weak ass niggas out here, They can't handle a real strong woman like me(Black women say this alot) & etc.
Ladies! You pray for all these things & still have not gotten or have found a man to call your husband. Why is that? It's because due to you wanting to be the masculine one, trying to dominate everything, feeling that you are in control, telling men off when they try to help you, disrespecting the arrangement for marriage that God directed to be, chasing after men that are no good, blaming every man that you get with or left you because of your personal problems, having no respect for black fathers is the reason why you are out here still looking. UNTIL! you can get over the mental incapacity & the insecurities & disrespect that you have, & allowing what it was intended to be for women to be second in command & man first, & realizing that being submissive is not being controlled, but respecting the Godly arrangement, then you will have a husband.
My interpretation: To sum up what Greg stated, until ladies present themselves as relationship material, they have NO RIGHT to pray for a God-fearing man. A God-fearing man will never check for a woman that's not of sound moral character.
