If someone tries too hard to attract the opposite sex's attention, they're seen as thirsty. Examples: Going all out for someone who doesn't want you in hopes they will change their mind. There's billions of people in this world to get worked up over one person that doesn't want you. Where they do that at? I've always seen thirsty men and women as desperate because they try so hard to get someone that may/may not be interested in them. If there's mutual interest, build upon that and be on your way. Being thirsty is borderline stalkerish, in my opinion because you don't know when to stop. Many women ask why are men so thirsty? My response is that women are dry. A dry woman is a desperate woman that will do any & everything to get a man, short of selling her soul. These types aren't used to being alone and crave manly flesh. Yes, humans were created to be in relationships but at the same time, your satisfaction should not derive from another person. I can honestly say I am NOT thirsty by any means. If I'm feeling a woman, I strike up conversation and if not, I move on and vice versa. I'm not excusing a thirsty man's behavior because while a man goes for someone he wants, it does come off thirsty with the sexual innuendos, the immediate texts/calls/e-mails the same day after the date, etc. After you go out with somebody, you should give them 24 hours of breathing room. This way, both of you can have time to process the date and find out if there's continued interest. Some people may appreciate the immediate contact post-date but to me, it would KIND of be a little weird to go out with a woman and things went so well she decided to contact me immediately after our date. Makes me wonder what was she doing before we went out? Did she have other outlets prior to meeting me? I guess I'm being too hard on thirsty men and women because some people go hard for something or someone they want. I can respect that. There's a time & place for everything. Just like women don't like thirsty men, most men don't like thirsty women (at least I don't) unless there's strong attraction.
