The following message is from Nojma Reflects. She gives brothers sound advice to consider before they lay up with this & that woman.
Brothers, you have to really be mindful regarding who you choose to reproduce you. The Black Woman has become one of the most rebellious women on the planet. There is a blatant attack on Black Men, their masculinity, their authority, their presence and their influence. A woman will be so quick to tell you what you can't do for "her" child, then paint you as a dead beat father.
You are leaving your children in the wombs and in the care of immoral, loose, rebellious, bitter and unapologetic women. Think about how aggressive the Black Woman has become on the attack of your manhood. She will quickly tell you how you are "less than", but negate that fact that something about you was more than enough, at least at one point in time, because she laid down with you. She will use your child as leverage, punishment, a pawn or a means to punk you. If you won't be your man, she will try to make you her bitch, by having you jump through hoops, bow down and kiss the ring.
Brothers, you have to really be mindful regarding who you choose to reproduce you. The Black Woman has become one of the most rebellious women on the planet. There is a blatant attack on Black Men, their masculinity, their authority, their presence and their influence. A woman will be so quick to tell you what you can't do for "her" child, then paint you as a dead beat father.
You are leaving your children in the wombs and in the care of immoral, loose, rebellious, bitter and unapologetic women. Think about how aggressive the Black Woman has become on the attack of your manhood. She will quickly tell you how you are "less than", but negate that fact that something about you was more than enough, at least at one point in time, because she laid down with you. She will use your child as leverage, punishment, a pawn or a means to punk you. If you won't be your man, she will try to make you her bitch, by having you jump through hoops, bow down and kiss the ring.
She wants to let you know that SHE is in control, you are at the hands of her mercy. She will tell you when you can see your children. She has the ability to determine how your children view you, even if the view is temporary.
Black Men don't get caught up in the pretty face and the nice physique, because while that is pleasing to your eye, you need to make sure that her MIND brings you the MOST satisfaction, otherwise you run the risk of your legacy being housed in the womb of your future warden.
My View: As usual, Ms. Nojma is right on target. Why would some men be so careless as to entrust their seed to some random? This is your child you're talking about, someone that's going to be a part of you for the next 18+ years, and you're just going to throw it away on a whim. That couldn't be me. I understand that some couples get together under the best intentions, and divorce still happens. If you don't see yourself with someone long-term, it's best not to have a child with them; just my view.
Black Men don't get caught up in the pretty face and the nice physique, because while that is pleasing to your eye, you need to make sure that her MIND brings you the MOST satisfaction, otherwise you run the risk of your legacy being housed in the womb of your future warden.
My View: As usual, Ms. Nojma is right on target. Why would some men be so careless as to entrust their seed to some random? This is your child you're talking about, someone that's going to be a part of you for the next 18+ years, and you're just going to throw it away on a whim. That couldn't be me. I understand that some couples get together under the best intentions, and divorce still happens. If you don't see yourself with someone long-term, it's best not to have a child with them; just my view.
