Today's Strawberry Letter is about a married couple's dead sex life. The reason I call their sex life dead is because this woman's husband hasn't touched her sexually or sexed her in years. The woman is successful by all accounts: Own home, car, good job, and I assume the husband has the same credentials since they're married. From what I read, this woman's sex drive is high and the husband's sex drive is dead. Check this: The husband admits to cheating on his wife during a bachelor's party years ago. The husband must feel bad about his infidelity because he doesn't want to sex his lady. He doesn't know if she's forgiven him or not, and I respect him for being open about his infidelity towards his wife. Most men would take that to their grave.
When he admitted to cheating on his wife, even if she forgave him & took him back, it's hard for him to be intimate with his wife. He doesn't know if she will be responsive like she was before. She may not admit it, but I think she's harboring resentment towards him for his infidelity. I mean, he admitted he cheated on his woman; how else is she supposed to feel? Going further, he's sown his sexual oats prior to marriage, and he has nothing left for his wife; that's where the disconnect comes from. When someone's done this, that & the third with other people, they're going to get tired of sex, even if their spouse initiates. I think this can be fixed; but both sides have to be willing to meet in the middle.
When he admitted to cheating on his wife, even if she forgave him & took him back, it's hard for him to be intimate with his wife. He doesn't know if she will be responsive like she was before. She may not admit it, but I think she's harboring resentment towards him for his infidelity. I mean, he admitted he cheated on his woman; how else is she supposed to feel? Going further, he's sown his sexual oats prior to marriage, and he has nothing left for his wife; that's where the disconnect comes from. When someone's done this, that & the third with other people, they're going to get tired of sex, even if their spouse initiates. I think this can be fixed; but both sides have to be willing to meet in the middle.
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