Aug 19, 2015

Strawberry Letter: Is It Ok To Date My Ex's Cousin?


If she has to ask this question, she knows it's a major violation to date your Ex's cousin. She was probably intimate with her ex before they broke up, and because she's considering dating her ex's cousin, she may decide to get intimate with him if they're vibing. The first thing that comes to my mind is she has no decorum about herself. Dating your ex's cousin is just like dating your friend's ex, that's going to cause all kinds of problems & she doesn't need that. She reconnected with her old friend via Facebook and he blew her mind. According to her, he's a gentleman, handsome and has feelings for her. That being said, why is she checking for her ex's cousin? Her friend that she's reconnected with is feeling her, so she should cut the crap and give her friend a chance. It's said the best couples start off as friends. 
Her choosing to date her ex's cousin is going to cause trouble. Think about it, they're all close so if she decides to date her ex's cousin, and the relationship goes bad, there's no telling what's going to happen. Lord help her if the rest of the family gets out, she's going to be side-eyed by her ex's family. They're going to start gossiping about her, and the dirty looks/shade will be too much to bear and they split. To me, it's foul to date your ex's cousin because that's like dating a family member. You know how some people wouldn't eat everyone's cooking because they don't know how clean (s)he is? This is just like that. To answer her question: No, it's not ok to date your ex's cousin, so she might want to get this nonsense out of her mind.

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