Strawberry Letter: I Can't Help Myself

I Can't Help Myself

This is easy. Her vibe is so good, guys are drawn to that. She puts young men at ease and because they feel good around her, they tell her those magic words and she lays down with him. It sounds like she ties her self-worth to how many men she can get to sleep with her. If men are sleeping with her, she feels attractive, but the problem is that none of these men are giving her a second glance outside of sex. Yes, she's attractive and has a lot going for herself, but those men don't see that, all they see is someone to sleep with. These men say the right words, and she opens up heaven's gate. I think she needs to realize her worth and let men be attracted to her mind & ambition, because she seems to have a good head on her shoulders. She tends to trust men too soon before getting to know them. She needs to realize how a man thinks: When a man is getting to know a woman, he will say anything to get some. Not all men, but a lot of them think with their other head instead of the one attached to their shoulders. A man will put a woman at ease long enough to get what he wants, and he's gone. She's left looking crazy because in her mind, he said all the right things. That's the problem, some men talk a good game, but very few back it up. Maybe she should consider celibacy. It's gonna be hard for her because she will have those urges but in the long run, she'll have a clear understanding of who she is and what she's looking for, so I think celibacy will be a good look for her. Celibacy will allow her to focus on herself & school, and who knows? She may meet the right man who's on the same path as her.