Blessed & Highly Favored? 😒

This is one of the annoying phrases in Christianity, and let me explain why: People who scream they're blessed & highly favored keep up more mess in their lives and other people's lives. Last time I checked, God is not the author of confusion so they're just saying that to ease their conscience. Being truly blessed & highly favored means you have favor everywhere you go; everybody can see Christ through you & don't have any ill word against you. That's what being blessed & highly favored is all about, even making your enemies show love to you. It's funny how people like to twist Christian phrases to justify their foolishness. My thing is: Don't say you're blessed & highly favored and you're keeping up mess everywhere you go. You're gossiping about Sister & Brother so & so in the choir when (s)he has been nothing short of respectful to you. You have to be a special version of phony to do people like that. You're blessed & highly favored, but you broke up someone's marriage & have the nerve to thank God for sending that (wo)man into your life. No, YOU couldn't stand to see someone else happy so you try to take what's theirs. I don't respect that foolishness at all. Then again, you can't really steal anyone from a person because they probably were in on the scandal. You can never win being dirty, because what you do to others (good or bad) will come around on you. That's why I'm annoyed when some folks say they're blessed & highly favored because it's almost, always coming from a messy place. You're Blessed & Highly Favored, ok then.