Feb 14, 2015

Why Women Aren't Being Pursued


So many women complain about interested suitors not pursuing them, which leads some women to believe that something's wrong with them. It's like this: A man will pursue a woman he sees value in. If a man doesn't recognize a woman's value, there's nothing wrong with her per se, it's just that she's not valuable to him. The simple solution for her is to remain single until the right man recognizes her value. No sense in crying over why this & that man isn't checking for you. People need to stop depending on others to see your worth; not everyone will see your worth and that's fine. Maybe it's not for some men to realize a woman's worth because many men are looking to come up at a woman's expense, and that's not a good look. It's happened many times over; a woman works with a man to help him come up, then once he's made it, he leaves her. She's stuck looking crazy because she invested all this time into a man, and another woman reaps the benefit of her work. She had good intentions, but the wrong man sensed her worth and took advantage of it. I'm all for pursuing a woman, but I have to recognize her value to me. How can we make each other better? By getting with a woman I can't see the value in, I'm doing her a disservice (hopefully she would feel the same about me), and I don't do people like that. If a man pursues a woman, it's because he sees the value she could bring to his life. When a man sees a woman's value, he will move heaven & earth to lock her down because he knows other cats are sitting in the cut ready to take his spot.


4 comments:

  1. Absolutely true. I have a question how can I protect my worth?

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    1. Know who you are and what you're willing/not willing to put up with. If you're bringing 100% to the table, demand a prospective suitor brings the same or leave them be. Unless (s)he is trying, you can't help every person along.

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  2. I think you could even take this one step further. It's not so much he doesn't see value in her, what he doesn't have is a spirit of discernment or a connection to God to see the bigger picture. Women should always know that rejection is God's protection and someone better always always comes along. - Marvelous

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