Mar 11, 2013

Women's Financial Independence=Lifelong Single?

Women are making major moves everywhere you turn. Women are gaining on (and probably surpassing) men in the executive realm. More women are getting college education at a higher rate than men, etc. It's safe to say that women are getting it in across the board. Is women's financial independence sentencing them to lifelong singledom? That seems to be the case, since most women remain unmarried by choice. It's a given most people want someone who's on their level, nothing wrong with that. I'm making major moves myself, and I want a woman that's on my level. I don't have time to "carry" another adult. They should be able to make their own way the same as I'm doing. It used to be the men who were movers & shakers, but the tide has turned with women doing it big. In my opinion, it's some men's inability to be successful that's the problem. Everyone should have the drive to want to better themselves, but some people are content in mediocrity. I have one life to live, and I'm going to make the most of it. When I'm on my death bed, I want to say: I came, saw & conquered. In layman's terms, I want to go out in style. I admire a woman who can carry herself as a lady, and achieve her goals she set for herself. Independence is not a bad thing, it tells me she is mentally in tune with her affairs and takes care of all of her necessities: financial, family, and spiritual. That's the type of woman all men should seek to stand by their side when they need a strong right hand. Most successful men seek out a likeminded woman because she compliments him & vice versa. They can work on building a dynasty together. Where the problem lies is some successful women try to strong-arm a man into doing her bidding, because she makes more $$$ than him. See, she wouldn't pull that on a man who has his stuff together because he can flip the script on her, letting her know he's got options too.

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