Feb 11, 2013

Strength IS NOT...


49 minutes ago
Sisters, your strength isn't getting your hand and elbow in the perfect 90 degree angle as you place it on your hip, constrict your neck and roll your eyes as venom spews from your mouth. Your strength isn't assisting in the emasculation and castration of the Black Man. Your strength isn't in challenging him to an "I can do anything you can do but better contest". Your strength isn't in breaking down a man that society attempts to break down every day. You will never find peace if you constantly promote chaos.
We say a man can't handle a strong woman. The above is NOT strength. The above is being Willie Lynch's mouthpiece. Let me tell you what a strong woman REALLY is.
A strong woman is a GODLY woman. A strong woman understands the blueprint of our slave masters, but REFUSES to build HIS world, and concentrates on building GOD'S KINGDOM. A Strong Woman recognizes that wombs of many generations have built efficient slaves, and if both the physical and mental wombs placed us in this condition, then both the mental and physical wombs will free us from this condition.
A strong woman shows support, encouragement, she nurtures, consoles, revives, rebuilds, and she also repairs. Again if this society attempts to break the Black Man down then we have to put him back together again. A strong woman is studious , she is a master scientist in her kitchen, she nurses her family back to health, she is the dean in her home as she is the first teacher, she understands that as hard as it is for her, it is even harder for HIM. A strong woman knows the power of words, so she chooses them carefully. A strong woman doesn't absolve the Black Man of his duty, but cultivates the God within him so that he can effectively perform his duty. A strong woman doesn't turn the hearts of her children away from their father, she positions their hearts towards him.
#RealStrength101
 
My View: TAKE THAT, TAKE THAT, TAKE THAT! If I haven't said it before, I'll say it again: I enjoy Sister Nojma's writing because it's positive and she's not afraid to check women on their belligerent behavior. Every time a man calls a woman out for her nonsense, it's taken as an attack. Most men admire strong women, but a truly STRONG woman has her own voice, but is submissive to her man if he's leading honorably. Some women think challenging their man on everything is strength, but it's not. A man battles enough when he steps outside his home, and to come home to have to do battle with his woman is TOO MUCH. A man's home is his castle, the one place where he should have peace and if his woman isn't providing that for him, she can & will be replaced. Just like women will tolerate their man's foolishness for so long until she replaces him, the same applies to women. Usually, men won't think twice about replacing a woman that's not up to snuff.


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