women::: there are two kinds of interest from a man.
#1 simple interest - calling, texting, spending time, talking, dating, etc.
#2 special interest - may look just like simple interest in some cases, but special interest has a couple of additional components. a- sacrifice. a man with special interest may sacrifice his own free time to spend with you. he may sacrifice, and call you even though he is a self described "anti - talk on the phone person".
b- goal or principle. whereas a man with simple interest may continue to show you interest, a man with special interest demonstrates his interest with a goal in mind. he dates you with a goal of marriage as the stated end. simple interest men often date a woman and speak about marriage with the ol’ "maybe one day" line. the special interest man sees you as ‘A WIFE’ and uses contact with you to determine if you are ‘HIS WIFE’.
90% of ya’ll that are getting the simple interest man. His interest is copyable, and can be applied to any woman, anywhere. the simple interest guy IS NOT trying to sacrifice, and tailor his contact with you for your benefit. he says "why go through all of that, I can just pick someone else".
#1 simple interest - calling, texting, spending time, talking, dating, etc.
#2 special interest - may look just like simple interest in some cases, but special interest has a couple of additional components. a- sacrifice. a man with special interest may sacrifice his own free time to spend with you. he may sacrifice, and call you even though he is a self described "anti - talk on the phone person".
b- goal or principle. whereas a man with simple interest may continue to show you interest, a man with special interest demonstrates his interest with a goal in mind. he dates you with a goal of marriage as the stated end. simple interest men often date a woman and speak about marriage with the ol’ "maybe one day" line. the special interest man sees you as ‘A WIFE’ and uses contact with you to determine if you are ‘HIS WIFE’.
90% of ya’ll that are getting the simple interest man. His interest is copyable, and can be applied to any woman, anywhere. the simple interest guy IS NOT trying to sacrifice, and tailor his contact with you for your benefit. he says "why go through all of that, I can just pick someone else".
My View: This makes sense. The level of interest a man has in a woman determines how far he will go to make something happen. If a man really wants to be with a woman, he will move heaven & earth to make it happen, and she will respond in favor. If there's little or no interest, a man will come up with every excuse in the book not to spend time with the woman. In that case, she can't be upset because in so many words, he's telling her she's not worthy of his time. You can't force someone to be with you, they have to make that decision themselves. Let's be honest, a good man is hard to find. Even more difficult for a woman is to find a good man that will sacrifice his time to be with her. THOSE men aren't to be trifled with.
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