Misery Loves Company

You can tell how much power you have over someone when they go out of their way to make your life miserable.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 12, 2016

Misery Loves company, and it's true. You can tell how much power you have over someone when they go out of their way to make your life miserable. It's like if they can't be happy, neither will you. You may have done someone wrong, but if you've made it right with them & God, they should be able to move on. At least you were (wo)man enough to apologize, which is more than I can say for most people. Before I evolved, I used to go out of my way to make those who hurt me lives miserable, but after much work, it wasn't worth it. While they're keeping it moving, I'm sitting back looking crazy plotting on them. I'm spending energy that could've been used being productive on trying to make someone feel what I feel. Am I going to intentionally mistreat anyone? No, I know better. I wouldn't want anyone wasting their time trying to make me miserable because it won't work. I stay covered under the blood, so nothing can penetrate that blood without my consent. I feel it's pointless going out of your way to make someone's life miserable if they've hurt you. Let Karma do its work, because Karma knows everyone's address.

Real Talk 2016

Respect & trust can be lost by one bad decision.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 12, 2016

Stupid ones do. You cannot be half hood/half gentleman. https://t.co/eJ30Mlcaft

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 12, 2016

The more people try to push you down, the higher God will take you. That’s the way God is.

— Joel Osteen (@JoelOsteen) January 12, 2016

You can tell how much power you have over someone when they go out of their way to make your life miserable.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 12, 2016

Since the devil can't take God's word from someone, he'll try to take someone from God's word.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 12, 2016

RHOA Ep 10: Trouble on the Family Tree

#RHOA At least Kenya tried to have a relationship with her mom. Wipe the dust off your feet and move on @KenyaMoore.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 11, 2016

#RHOA Porsha is a selfish witch. She shouldn't be upset over her sister being pregnant before her.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 11, 2016

#RHOA I enjoy the interaction between Cynthia & her daughter Noelle.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 11, 2016

I will NEVER UNDERSTAND how a person can have a child and act like that child doesn't exist #RHOA

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 11, 2016

#RHOA I hope @KenyaMoore receives her deserved closure.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 11, 2016

Married Men: Strawberry Letter

Steve Harvey Strawberry Letter: Married Men

I don’t believe a woman puts off any signal(s) that she dates married men. That’s a bunch of crap. Whether they’re married men or single men, men by nature are predators so they will come on to any woman that they are attracted to. Period.

It’s up to HER to decide whether she wants to be bothered with a man who she KNOWS is married. That’s the difference.

A woman who loves, values, and respects herself will not allow herself to be used as a married man’s side cookie. She will have nothing to do with married men because she knows that a married man who sleeps with other women other than his wife is a liar and cheater who lacks morals.

Then we have THIS lady…..a woman who CHOSE to roll with married men and has been doing so since age 16. You are the opposite of the type of woman I described above.

Granted, she may not have known the marital status of these men from the jump. It’s a fact that the majority of men are never forthcoming and honest about their marital status. But once she found out, she could have simply walked away and had nothing else to do with them. She didn’t. As long as they took care of her, she continued sexing them.

I hope she's not fooling herself into thinking she's irreplaceable. They can and will drop her in a heartbeat when they're tired of her. They stick around for the sex because that’s what she's offering. They play on her emotions by “talking” to her to keep her around for sex.

An intelligent, no nonsense, self respecting woman has married men all figured out. SHE DOESN'T.

She has time to get herself together.

Tell It Like It Is

The problem with society today is the lack of shame and personal accountability for being, living, and looking reckless.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) December 11, 2015

As far as I'm concerned, you're wasting your time by trying to waste someone else's.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 9, 2016

The woman's definition of "Man" is: Perfection that she can control.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 9, 2016

We have options for everything else, but we can't choose our work colleagues. By default, we have to work with those we may not like.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 8, 2016

#DeepDown I enjoy wrongdoers getting what's coming to them. When you do wrong, wrong will follow.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 8, 2016

People really need to stop attributing issues to the devil. Not everything is the devil's fault, some issues are of our own doing.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 8, 2016

#Its2016AndWeStillDont have racial equality.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 8, 2016

What's stupid about this #WasteHisTime2016 hashtag from some women is if #WasteHerTime2016 was trending, women would have a problem with it.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 7, 2016

#WasteHis/HerTime

What's stupid about this #WasteHisTime2016 hashtag from some women is if #WasteHerTime2016 was trending, women would have a problem with it.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 7, 2016

The hashtags #WasteHisTime2016 & #WasteHerTime2016 are trending on social media. People figure out ways to waste someone's time, such as taking a woman out to eat and leaving her with the bill, some men getting women pregnant and running off, etc. Some of the tweets are savage, others are hilarious. Let me show you a few samples:

I'm sorry but these #WasteHisTime2016 tweets are hilarious 😂😭 pic.twitter.com/Ln3Spj8lI8

— Rachael Bernardo (@rach_bernardo) January 7, 2016

These tweets have me dying 😂 #WasteHisTime2016 pic.twitter.com/yc0dFWFTOJ

— granny (@grannywinkle) January 7, 2016

Tell her you will NEVER hurt her, Then cheat on her #WasteHerTime2016

— i don't pull out.✊ (@Tweets_NOchill) January 6, 2016

Tell her to get dress, I'm about to pull up we going out to eat, then never show up #WasteHerTime2016

— i don't pull out.✊ (@Tweets_NOchill) January 6, 2016

 These WasteHisTime & WasteHerTime tweets are the reason why relationships don't work in this generation. They're nothing more than promoting folks playing games with each other. Again, some of these tweets are funny, but the rest are savage.

Real Talk 2016: Week Of 1/4

I don't view anything the same anymore.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 6, 2016

Jesus is right for whatever's wrong.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 6, 2016

Real people don't have to try and be real, it's in them.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 5, 2016

How someone handles money says a lot about who they are. If a person spends more than saves, they have no discipline in other life areas.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 5, 2016

The same door you use to walk out, don't use that same door to come back.

— Florida Made (@RichardMIATL) January 4, 2016

Too many people lose sight of this important message:

Do not chase people. Be you and do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you, and stay.

— Law of Attraction (@TheLOAWorld) January 4, 2016